So DH had company over last night and someone mentioned a coworker was presgnant. 4 months pregnant. Now im very close with this girl and I am hurt that she told everyone around me and not me. I know its because i had the MC and everyone is afraid to say the word baby around me. I truly am fine. Sure im jealous.. and sure i want it to be me. So i have been using the OPK everyday and DH wanted to BD yesturday. I didnt want to deny him of this even though i rather wait till i got my . Since this is the first AF cycle that just passed since my period which started on 3/1 and ended on 3/5 do you think that was a bad choice. I tested again today and still no . Should i test a second time? later in day? Im going nuts with this whole process. Inmy dream world i would BD everynight but i dont know if thats such a good idea or if DH can function. Sorry for TMI. Thank you for support and letting me vent!!
I still havent gotten a smile on my OPK and today is my day for O. DH and I still BD last thursday for fun, monday, tuesday hopefully tonight and tomorrow night HTH
I'm sorry you're having a hard time. As far as OPK's go, DH and I usually BD before I get a smiley face. It gets so confusing to try and pinpoint ovulation and BD.
I know how hard that can be. One of my college roomates called me to tell me she was pg and before she could tell me (She beat around the bush) I told her about my recent m/c). Well she didn't tell me then. And then the holidays came and she didn't want to tell me. She didn't tell me until she was 28 weeks. I was hurt but at the same time.. I get it. I just wish she would have know that I would be happy for her no matter what! I can't help feel funny about it because she told me one week before I received her shower invite! As for OPk's... Keep testing each day. Make sure you hold your pee each day for a few hours and test around 2 or 3 pm. I can remember that my cycles were screwy for about 2 months after the m/c.
Gosh, I am so sorry. The fact that she did not tell you makes it worse....she should have understood that! I am so sorry. You're time will come I am sure!
Hang in there! It will happen again for you. I'm so sorry you are going through this. It can never hurt to BD, b/c afterall we're making love to our DHs.
If he can, hold out for the . My period was almost in the same exact window as yours, and I still have no gotten the .
Tonight I feel cramping, so O may be on it's way for both of us!