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When you ask for advice or for an opinion

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Tany
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When you ask for advice or for an opinion

here on lif, do you take it or still do whatever you want to do?

like if you want to buy something and people dislike it, do you still buy it anyways?

Posted 6/22/07 1:53 PM
 
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leighla
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Re: When you ask for advice or for an opinion

If I've already made up my mind I don't ask for opinions.

That's a pet peeve of mine. When people ask knowing full well what they are going to do already.

Posted 6/22/07 1:55 PM
 

Ophelia
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Re: When you ask for advice or for an opinion

I almost never ask for opinions...if I did, I'd consider it.

unless it was dumb.

Posted 6/22/07 1:57 PM
 

missus-hbradio
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Re: When you ask for advice or for an opinion

As far as buying things, I still buy it anyway. Thats why I barely ask questions like that.

As far as advice that is given, I do take everyones opinions into consideration.

Posted 6/22/07 1:58 PM
 

neenie

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Re: When you ask for advice or for an opinion

Posted by Ophelia

I almost never ask for opinions...if I did, I'd consider it.

unless it was dumb.



ditto.

I know that i'm stubborn, so i try not to waste people's time withgiving me advice that i'll never use Chat Icon

but, every once in a while, i'll ask questions on Fashion, b/c i'm completely challenged in that area. Chat Icon and then, i do really take it into account.

Posted 6/22/07 2:00 PM
 

BabyAvocado
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Re: When you ask for advice or for an opinion

If I ask for advice I usually take it...though not always. Actually very recently I was given advice and did not take it but I am willing to fully accept the consequences. Chat Icon

As for opinions, I don't often ask for them on fashion type stuff because if I like it I buy it... I don't usually need opinions... If I ask for opinions on fashion type stuff it's usually because I'm very on the fence about it.

Posted 6/22/07 2:05 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: When you ask for advice or for an opinion

I rarely ask for opinions.

When I do, I consider what people said & make my decision from there.

If I wasn't interested in weighing other's opinions or alternate views, then I see no point in asking for them.

Posted 6/22/07 2:13 PM
 

JerseyMamaOf3
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Re: When you ask for advice or for an opinion

When I ask for opinions I always think about what people have written. Especially if they point out something I wouldn't have thought of.

Posted 6/22/07 4:13 PM
 

MrsT
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Re: When you ask for advice or for an opinion

Depends on the issue. I don't ask for opinions on LIF for many things but did ask for opinions on Costco memberships. We are joining based on LIF recommendations.

Posted 6/22/07 4:16 PM
 

dpli
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Re: When you ask for advice or for an opinion

I don't often ask on here for advice or opinions, but when I do, I am usually hoping certain people will respond Chat Icon

IRL, if I don't want an opinion, I don't ask. I will ask a good friend what she thinks if I am really on the fence about something. I am pretty strong willed, if I know I am going to do something, I don't worry too much about what other people think.

Posted 6/22/07 4:38 PM
 

SweetestOfPeas
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Re: When you ask for advice or for an opinion

Posted by Tany

here on lif, do you take it or still do whatever you want to do?

like if you want to buy something and people dislike it, do you still buy it anyways?

yes

Posted 6/22/07 6:24 PM
 

munchkinbugs
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Re: When you ask for advice or for an opinion

I actually asked about a pair of shoes I already bought, and everyone said they didn't like them. But in real life I got compliments on them from strangers. So I consider the answers. I was actually kind of upset that noone liked them. But I felt better when I got the compliments.

Posted 6/22/07 6:41 PM
 

DebG
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Re: When you ask for advice or for an opinion

nope, I don't ask..I don't need the justification of others

Posted 6/23/07 1:41 AM
 
 

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