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LadyMaravilla
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Name: Sonia
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When You Have A Bad Day At Work....
Do you take the bad mood home with you? Or what happens at the office/work stays at the office?
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Posted 2/27/06 3:08 PM |
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Cheryl
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Member since 5/05 2354 total posts
Name: Mikey, Greg & TJ's Mommy
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Re: When You Have A Bad Day At Work....
I used to be like that... take it home with me. Now that I've learned my lesson- Work most definitely leaves when I exit the door.
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Posted 2/27/06 3:09 PM |
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Christine
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Re: When You Have A Bad Day At Work....
Sometimes I do if it's something that affects me personally, like if my performance or something is called into question. Regular annoyances I usually shake off by the time I get home.
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Posted 2/27/06 3:09 PM |
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baghag
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Re: When You Have A Bad Day At Work....
I leave it at the door. I refuse to let work trouble poison my personal life.
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Posted 2/27/06 3:09 PM |
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BaroqueMama
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Re: When You Have A Bad Day At Work....
I wish I could leave it at work, but I take things so personally, so it almost always follows me home. I wish I could separate the two, but it's hard.
ETA: the hard part about leaving it at work is that my bad days are usually because someone attacked me personally. It seems that when you work in a small environment, people get TOO comfortable and say whatever the hell they feel like to you.
Message edited 2/27/2006 3:11:59 PM.
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Posted 2/27/06 3:10 PM |
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Bebalina
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Name: N
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Re: When You Have A Bad Day At Work....
here and there, i leave my problems at work, but if work put me in a bad mood i have a hard time getting suddenly happy when i get home....which totally sux, cuz life is too short for me to think about this $hithole when i get home.
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Posted 2/27/06 3:10 PM |
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MrsS2005
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Name: B
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Re: When You Have A Bad Day At Work....
I take it home with me even though I try to forget about it. I feel like I can never fully escape from my job no matter how much I try.
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Posted 2/27/06 3:11 PM |
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Re: When You Have A Bad Day At Work....
Sometimes I do - sometimes I dont.
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Posted 2/27/06 3:13 PM |
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nrthshgrl
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Re: When You Have A Bad Day At Work....
I take it out on my husband
Just kidding. I unload in terms of telling DH what happened, but it's not his fault my boss acts like a 2 year old.
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Posted 2/27/06 3:17 PM |
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skew
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Re: When You Have A Bad Day At Work....
i sometimes bring work related problems home but never bring home related problems to work. regardless of what happens at home (pos or neg) i keep it at home. i think it is normal though to vent about work related problems at home.
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Posted 2/27/06 3:17 PM |
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Elbee
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Re: When You Have A Bad Day At Work....
Posted by missus-hbradio
Sometimes I do - sometimes I dont.
Ditto! The long commute home, reading a book helps immendely though. When I used to work 5 blocks from my house, I was never able to really shake the bad feelings ... now that it takes me 50 minutes to an hour by bus to get home I'm able to read, relax and let go ...
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Posted 2/27/06 3:20 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here
Member since 5/05 12023 total posts
Name: Sonia
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Re: When You Have A Bad Day At Work....
I can't help but be nasty the first hour or so at home. Poor DH!
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Posted 2/27/06 3:23 PM |
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pmpkn087
Life is good...
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Name: Stephanie
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Re: When You Have A Bad Day At Work....
I leave that sheit here. Forget it...DH takes it home with him, so if we both did, we'd be divorced already.
ETS: It takes me a little over an hour to get home, so I think that helps me clear my mind.
Message edited 2/27/2006 3:25:28 PM.
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Posted 2/27/06 3:23 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here
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Name: Sonia
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Re: When You Have A Bad Day At Work....
Posted by pmpkn087
I leave that sheit here. Forget it...DH takes it home with him, so if we both did, we'd be divorced already.
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Posted 2/27/06 3:25 PM |
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Sandra
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Name: Sandra
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Re: When You Have A Bad Day At Work....
Posted by Bebalina
here and there, i leave my problems at work, but if work put me in a bad mood i have a hard time getting suddenly happy when i get home....which totally sux, cuz life is too short for me to think about this $hithole when i get home.
I feel the same way, last week I was in a mood b/c of work, but I tell myself to get beyond it, but I can't sometimes, and life is too short, but actually knowing all this, and actually living it is not so easy sometimes.
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Posted 2/27/06 3:39 PM |
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GenLCSW
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Re: When You Have A Bad Day At Work....
I leave it at work...DH takes it home though
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Posted 2/27/06 3:39 PM |
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Hi-Fi55
12 years...wow....
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Re: When You Have A Bad Day At Work....
I try and leave it at work for the most part. But I'm only human and once and awhile it carries home with me. If I know that it's going to be bad I make sure to stop off before I go home (go shopping, or run errands, etc.).
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Posted 2/27/06 3:47 PM |
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lvdolphins
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Re: When You Have A Bad Day At Work....
It comes home and poor DH gets vented at or I post on LIF (sorry about that everyone)..but it helps to "type" it out too.
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Posted 2/27/06 4:02 PM |
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Beth
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Name: Beth
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Re: When You Have A Bad Day At Work....
when the going gets tough - I go shopping- and then I am happy!!!!
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Posted 2/27/06 4:05 PM |
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christy
Mommy of 2
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Name: Christy
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Re: When You Have A Bad Day At Work....
I always used to take it home...I have become really good at not doing that anymore!
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Posted 2/27/06 4:23 PM |
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Pumpkin
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Re: When You Have A Bad Day At Work....
I take it home with me. I know that is bad but i do that. Poor Dh.
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Posted 2/27/06 6:05 PM |
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Mrs-Boop
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Re: When You Have A Bad Day At Work....
I've gotten much better with this. I take my frustrations of the day out on the other drivers on the car ride home, cursing at them , making fun of them and yelling at them in my car. So if ya see some crazy gal talking to herself while driving, thats me getting everything out before I get home!!
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Posted 2/27/06 6:08 PM |
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HarleyGirlFLA
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Name: Mel
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Re: When You Have A Bad Day At Work....
Posted by prncssrachel
I wish I could leave it at work, but I take things so personally, so it almost always follows me home. I wish I could separate the two, but it's hard.
ETA: the hard part about leaving it at work is that my bad days are usually because someone attacked me personally. It seems that when you work in a small environment, people get TOO comfortable and say whatever the hell they feel like to you.
My thoughts exactly. My entire office is 10 people and I tend to take things to heart and then dwell on them for days.
Sometimes I do leave what happens at work stay at work, but it is so hard.
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Posted 2/27/06 6:45 PM |
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Mushpot
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Name: Traci
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Re: When You Have A Bad Day At Work....
i try not to take it home, but sometimes it sneaks in the door with me when I take off my jacket and sit down, there it is again..
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Posted 2/27/06 6:46 PM |
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