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When you have playdates or have a friend babysit, do you always help clean up before leaving?

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When you have playdates or have a friend babysit, do you always help clean up before leaving?

Just curious...



ETA: Ok, that's what I do to, I always clean up regardless if the mom says oh its ok (I think she's just being nice)

I guess it annoys me that I do and my friend asked me watch her son 6x in two weeks because they're remodeling...and when she picks him up, she NEVER picks up anything Chat Icon yet I always help pick up there.

I mean last night was kind of ridiculous, my DD was already in bed, her son was still here, he pulled out all the DVD's (just like my DD does) and megablocks, and when she picked him up she was like, awww, did you pull all of these out? and left them there

Chat Icon SERIOUSLY!?!?!?! I mean, I am watching your son as a favor, you could at least help pick up! Especially since its the end of the semester for me...work and grading, its busy. UGH

Thanks for letting me vent Chat Icon

Message edited 12/10/2010 9:07:26 AM.

Posted 12/10/10 8:45 AM
 
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Ang-Rich
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Re: When you have playdates or have a friend babysit, do you always help clean up before leaving?

Yes...I always try...even when they tell me to stop. It's just how I am.

Posted 12/10/10 8:58 AM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: When you have playdates or have a friend babysit, do you always help clean up before leaving?

Yes, I always try and feel guilty when they say "Don't worry, I got it". LOL

Posted 12/10/10 9:01 AM
 

BeachMom
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Re: When you have playdates or have a friend babysit, do you always help clean up before leaving?

I always do, even when they say don't worry about it. That's just me i like to leave a place how i found it.

Only when we go to my SIL's do i make my DD help clean but don't make her clean up the whole thing, bc the play room is a disaster when we get there from SIL DS. So while we clean up what we mess up and some of the other, that is the only place i dont feel guilty about leaving with a mess on the floor, because when we leave, it's still in better condition than when we arrived.

Posted 12/10/10 9:06 AM
 

Elbee
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Re: When you have playdates or have a friend babysit, do you always help clean up before leaving?

I try to clean up as best possible. When I have playdates here I (and the other moms) usually go into the playroom a few minutes before everyone is ready to leave and help the kids clean up a bit. I think it's good to teach kids to clean up after themselves.

Posted 12/10/10 9:06 AM
 

bicosi
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Re: When you have playdates or have a friend babysit, do you always help clean up before leaving?

Posted by Ang-Rich

Yes...I always try...even when they tell me to stop. It's just how I am.



Ditto! If I have my kids clean up their own mess in our home, I will have them do the same at other people's houses as well.

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Posted 12/10/10 9:36 AM
 

Lara&Aidansmommy
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Re: When you have playdates or have a friend babysit, do you always help clean up before leaving?

Playdates are usually at my house and the girls I invite over ALWAYS help clean up afterwards

Posted 12/10/10 9:38 AM
 

summerBaby10
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Re: When you have playdates or have a friend babysit, do you always help clean up before leaving?

I would try to help even though they tell me no. But when I tell people no, I really mean NO. lol

Posted 12/10/10 9:39 AM
 
 

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