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alnem
This is gonna be a good year!
Member since 2/06 9562 total posts
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Emily
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When you were asking people to be in your bridal party....
Did you ask people with your DH present (like as a couple)?
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Did you ask the girls and DH asked the guys?
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Did you just ask everyone (both guys and girls)?
DH is upset cause his sisters FH hasnt asked anyone to be in the BP. she's asked all the girls but the FH has yet to ask any of the guys. SIL said "he should just KNOW that he's in the wedding, we shouldnt have to ask him". so now cause she knows he's a bit peeved she says she will call him and ask him. But i KNOW that will pizz him off more! he wants his FBIL to be respectful enough to ask him on his own!!!
eta: DH and i asked everyone at our eparty and we did it together. he had 1 cousin that had to work that day so we went to his house a few days after the eparty and asked him face to face.
Message edited 8/29/2007 2:55:19 PM.
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SweetTooth
I'm a tired mommy!
Member since 12/05 20105 total posts
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Lauren
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Re: When you were asking people to be in your bridal party....
I asked the girls and DH asked the guys. Except for the FG because she was DH's sister's daughter, and my brother, because somehow that was just understood.
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nov04libride
big brother <3
Member since 5/05 14672 total posts
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Me
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Re: When you were asking people to be in your bridal party....
You know what, I think DH asked his sister instead of me asking her.  I just never saw her alone and it never seemed like the right time...I'm so bad with stuff like that. My brother was a groomsman and DH didn't ask him, I asked (TOLD) him...  We didn't see my brother often (he lived in another state) so it was easier for me to relay the message.
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headoverheels
s'il vous plaît
Member since 6/07 42079 total posts
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LB
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Re: When you were asking people to be in your bridal party....
lol... i went thru the same thing with FH!! i asked all my girls right away and he waited forever to ask his guys. the difference was i asked over the phone but he wanted to do it in person so it literally took months. a friend of mine didn't ask 3 guys to be in his BP till may - and he got married august 10th!!
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babymakes3
Almost there!
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Re: When you were asking people to be in your bridal party....
We did it the same weekend but separately about a year before the wedding.
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J9-13
We're gonna be big sisters!
Member since 6/06 14887 total posts
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J9
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Re: When you were asking people to be in your bridal party....
I asked the girls on my own and he asked the guys on his own. I had to force him to tell them though since he also thought they would all just "know" 
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nrthshgrl
It goes fast. Pay attention.
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Re: When you were asking people to be in your bridal party....
I asked the girls; DH asked the guys. For the most part, I asked them if I was alone at the time. DH took his sweet time asking his guys but asked each one.
FBIL should ask.
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| Posted 8/29/07 3:24 PM |
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capricorn75
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Re: When you were asking people to be in your bridal party....
I asked the girls, dh asked the guys but I was there when he asked and he was there when I asked. Does that make any sense? LOL!
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Jessica
I'm a mommy :)
Member since 1/06 7322 total posts
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Re: When you were asking people to be in your bridal party....
i asked my girls like as soon as i got engaged
anthony said that his guys should assume they were in it and didnt ask them, more like tell them about tuxes till last month .i think most guys are like this
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| Posted 8/29/07 3:28 PM |
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Lanabean
Yoginis
Member since 11/05 9202 total posts
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Lana
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Re: When you were asking people to be in your bridal party....
I asked the girls by bringing each one roses and a card; DH asked the dudes.
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| Posted 8/29/07 3:29 PM |
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lvdolphins
My Loves!
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Re: When you were asking people to be in your bridal party....
I asked the girls.
DH asked the guys.
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| Posted 8/29/07 3:30 PM |
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itkocak
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Re: When you were asking people to be in your bridal party....
Message edited 11/10/2011 9:35:22 PM.
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Shelly
She's 7!!!
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Re: When you were asking people to be in your bridal party....
Posted by nrthshgrl
I asked the girls; DH asked the guys. For the most part, I asked them if I was alone at the time. DH took his sweet time asking his guys but asked each one.
FBIL should ask.
same here and ITA.
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GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!
Member since 7/05 21138 total posts
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Re: When you were asking people to be in your bridal party....
Posted by lvdolphins
I asked the girls.
DH asked the guys.
same here
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| Posted 8/29/07 4:23 PM |
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salumunz
Chloe
Member since 1/06 1554 total posts
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Patty
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Re: When you were asking people to be in your bridal party....
I asked the girls, he asked the guys.
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| Posted 8/29/07 4:27 PM |
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evnme
My little lamb
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Re: When you were asking people to be in your bridal party....
i asked the girls and dh asked the guys
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| Posted 8/29/07 4:31 PM |
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nyteacher13
Three Under Four!!! :-)
Member since 8/06 6405 total posts
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Re: When you were asking people to be in your bridal party....
I asked the girls, dh asked the guys...
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| Posted 8/29/07 4:45 PM |
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LightUpOurLife
Totally in love
Member since 8/06 12785 total posts
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Re: When you were asking people to be in your bridal party....
Depended on the situation. My GFs and sister, I did on my own. My SIL (his brothers wife) we did together.
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| Posted 8/29/07 4:48 PM |
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~Colleen~
my loves...
Member since 5/05 9129 total posts
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guess
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Re: When you were asking people to be in your bridal party....
Posted by alnem
Did you ask the girls and DH asked the guys?
That's what we did. DH took a lot longer to do the asking than I did...he waited until about 3 weeks before our wedding to ask his one sister to be his "Best Woman" (his 2 brothers were his Best Men)
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Superkat
More a stranger than a friend
Member since 5/06 9730 total posts
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K
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Re: When you were asking people to be in your bridal party....
We asked our people separately. My DH was terrible about it, he didn't ask his cousin until 6 weeks before the wedding. 
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Re: When you were asking people to be in your bridal party....
We asked separately, and we asked the parents of our FG and RB together.
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NASP09
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Re: When you were asking people to be in your bridal party....
I asked the girls and DH asked the guys
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