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BabyAvocado
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Which do you think is worse for a guy?
To hear he was dumped because there was no chemistry or to hear he was dumped because she just wasn't ready for a serious relationship?
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Posted 1/12/06 9:40 AM  |
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Michi
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Re: Which do you think is worse for a guy?
worse- no chemistry
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| Posted 1/12/06 9:40 AM |
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Re: Which do you think is worse for a guy?
No chemistry.
But I am always suspicious of the "not ready for a serious relationship." Maybe because I used it a couple times and the true meaning was, "I might throw up if I have to come close to kissing you." But maybe that makes it a lack of chemistry issue? 
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| Posted 1/12/06 9:42 AM |
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-Laurie-
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Re: Which do you think is worse for a guy?
my brother was crushed when his enagement ended so I would say "if she just wasen't ready for a serious relationship" since that was her reasoning. I think when a guy finally sees the house, the kids, a wife in his head and then the girl changes her mind is worse then a change in chemistry.
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| Posted 1/12/06 9:43 AM |
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mishy
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Re: Which do you think is worse for a guy?
Posted by muchinluvmichi
worse- no chemistry
I agree
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Redhead
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Re: Which do you think is worse for a guy?
Posted by BabyAvocado
To hear he was dumped because there was no chemistry or to hear he was dumped because she just wasn't ready for a serious relationship?
no chemistry
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BabyAvocado
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Re: Which do you think is worse for a guy?
Posted by MrsProfessor
No chemistry.
But I am always suspicious of the "not ready for a serious relationship." Maybe because I used it a couple times and the true meaning was, "I might throw up if I have to come close to kissing you." But maybe that makes it a lack of chemistry issue?
 Too funny... that is so applicable to what I'm asking.
So do you think that if the guy heard "she's just not ready for a serious relationship" that he would be let down easy or would it leave room for hope?
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LSP2005
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Re: Which do you think is worse for a guy?
worse is no chem but I think not ready for a serious relationship leaves some room for hope for the person. If it were serious enough to already be engaged, then there is a deeper problem than no chem or serious relationship but the other person does not want to say.
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| Posted 1/12/06 9:48 AM |
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luvsbob4603
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Re: Which do you think is worse for a guy?
No chemistry~ I think it would be worse for a guy to hear that!
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| Posted 1/12/06 9:54 AM |
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momAGAIN
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Re: Which do you think is worse for a guy?
Posted by muchinluvmichi
worse- no chemistry
agree
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| Posted 1/12/06 10:37 AM |
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Donna
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Re: Which do you think is worse for a guy?
I would think no chemistry just because of the timeline
IMO breaking up with a guy because of no chemistry would happen by the 3rd date, so I doubt he's thinking marriage also.
IMO the "not ready for a serious relationship" is harsher because he's already put his feelings on the table and she's said no. Like on 2 and 1/2 men, the girl told Charlie Sheen she loved him and he said Thanks 
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Re: Which do you think is worse for a guy?
No chemistry
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| Posted 1/12/06 11:51 AM |
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LAMGAJ28
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Re: Which do you think is worse for a guy?
Posted by Donna
I would think no chemistry just because of the timeline
IMO breaking up with a guy because of no chemistry would happen by the 3rd date, so I doubt he's thinking marriage also.
IMO the "not ready for a serious relationship" is harsher because he's already put his feelings on the table and she's said no. Like on 2 and 1/2 men, the girl told Charlie Sheen she loved him and he said Thanks
I agree with this.....
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DjPiLL
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Re: Which do you think is worse for a guy?
I dont think either one is bad.
Whats so bad about hearing that somebody had no chemistry with a person thats a complete stranger to you?
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GenLCSW
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Re: Which do you think is worse for a guy?
no chemistry
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