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Who should Mother's Day be spent with?

Forum Opinion Poll
Me of course! 11 22.00%
He should definetly spend the day with his mother. 0 0.00%
We are both mothers so we can all spend the day together. 39 78.00%
To avoid the hassle, I just don't celebrate Mother's Day. 0 0.00%
 

Who Should Mother's Day Be Spent With?

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Alicia
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Who Should Mother's Day Be Spent With?

I have a question and would just like to hear what everyone thinks. Do you feel that your husband should celebrate Mother's Day with you or would it be o.k. if he celebrated the day with his mother? Or do you believe the day should be spent together (You & MIL)?

Posted 5/14/07 9:34 AM
 

dandr10199
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Dina

Re: Who Should Mother's Day Be Spent With?

I split the day. 1/2 with all of us (me, MIL, DH, baby, SIL, etc.)
and
1/2 just the three of us (me, DH and DD) Chat Icon

HTH Chat Icon

Posted 5/14/07 9:35 AM
 

LIMOMx2
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Re: Who Should Mother's Day Be Spent With?

I like to spend the day with everyone. My Mom, MIL and my SIL, etc.

Posted 5/14/07 9:36 AM
 

05mommy09
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Re: Who Should Mother's Day Be Spent With?

We divide the day into 3...

All of us with MIL

Some time alone just for "us"

and then some time with my mom

Posted 5/14/07 9:39 AM
 

Charly
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Re: Who Should Mother's Day Be Spent With?

I saw my mom on Saturday and his mom next week. For Mother's Day I just wanted to be with my DH and DD.

eta: Just so I don't sound mean my mom lives an hour away and my MIL is an hour away in the other direction. There's no way to see both mom's so we just do it separate.

Message edited 5/14/2007 9:44:38 AM.

Posted 5/14/07 9:43 AM
 

Stefanie

Member since 5/05

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Stefanie

Re: Who Should Mother's Day Be Spent With?

I would like to be acknowledged seperately. If my dh wants to see his mother, that's fine...but I'd rather see my mom while he's doing that. Then we would spend the time together as a family afterwards.

Message edited 5/14/2007 9:55:01 AM.

Posted 5/14/07 9:44 AM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Who Should Mother's Day Be Spent With?

We used to split the day between mothers. My MIL moved OOT, so it's no longer an issue.

This Mother's Day I spent both the morning & afternoon with the fabulous moms I know.Chat Icon

Message edited 5/14/2007 9:45:57 AM.

Posted 5/14/07 9:45 AM
 

betty
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Beth

Re: Who Should Mother's Day Be Spent With?

We spent the morning as a family and then went to a late brunch with my mom and his mom. Luckily things are pretty easy for us like that. There is NO WAY he could get away with not seeing his mom on Mother's Day or all he!! would break loose Chat Icon

Posted 5/14/07 9:50 AM
 

MrsBumbleb
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Christine

Re: Who Should Mother's Day Be Spent With?

Posted by Stefanie

I would like to be acknowledged seperately. If my dh wants to see his mother, that's fine...but I'd rather see my mom while he's doing that. Then we would spend the time together as a family afterwards.




sounds ideal to me,but who does Jared go with you or DH?

Posted 5/14/07 10:10 AM
 

JavaJunkie
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Member since 6/05

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Lois

Re: Who Should Mother's Day Be Spent With?

We spend the morning up until about 2pm just us, then we all get together and usually bbq....my mom, sister, his mom and dad etc. This way we all get to see each other and no running around necessary!

Posted 5/14/07 10:12 AM
 

Shelly
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Re: Who Should Mother's Day Be Spent With?

Well my MIL lives in another country- so thats not really an issue.

We usually spend it all together as a family, especially now that me and my sister are also moms.

But this mother's day was a treat. We spent it with another mom who is truly an inspiration to us, and with patience I can only dream of Chat Icon

Posted 5/14/07 10:13 AM
 

stayandjohn
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Stacey

Re: Who Should Mother's Day Be Spent With?

I do mothers day at my house, my family and his family are invited, this way no one gets upset and everyone is together

Posted 5/14/07 10:16 AM
 

Stefanie

Member since 5/05

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Stefanie

Re: Who Should Mother's Day Be Spent With?

Posted by MrsBumbleb

Posted by Stefanie

I would like to be acknowledged seperately. If my dh wants to see his mother, that's fine...but I'd rather see my mom while he's doing that. Then we would spend the time together as a family afterwards.




sounds ideal to me,but who does Jared go with you or DH?



Me, I'm the mother...

I'm sorry if I'm sounding bitter, but I have many reasons that I won't mention as to why I'm this way...Chat Icon

Message edited 5/14/2007 10:30:20 AM.

Posted 5/14/07 10:19 AM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: Who Should Mother's Day Be Spent With?

We split the day in 3..
AM: Breakfast with his mother.
Afternoon: Dh is with DS and I.
PM: Dinner with my mom and family

Posted 5/14/07 11:34 AM
 

Tracey
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Tracey - brideinapril

Re: Who Should Mother's Day Be Spent With?

I agree with Stefanie on this one - I want to be acknowledged separately as well.

I have my own issues to deal with - so things aren't so rosy when it comes to inlaws.
Dh spent Saturday with his mom while I took my oldest to a birthday party. But at this point I would have made myself scarce anyway.

Posted 5/14/07 11:42 AM
 
 

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