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Diane
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Why is that....

Ever since my m/c I I had my follow up appointment last week and I started to cry again.
Yesterday I had my information class for cryopreservation, and I was hysterically cring as soon as I walked into the clinic.
My IVF coordinator was wonderful.
I guess just being in the ofiice reminds me of all the heartbreak Im feeling.

But out of the blue my acupuncturist called me and left a message, and I was meaning to call her.
I just found out a colleage in my department announced she is 11 weeks pg )I would have been 11 weeks now)Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Im sorry, just had to vent

Posted 11/23/05 7:14 AM
 
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MrsProfessor
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Posted 11/23/05 8:01 AM
 

Donna
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I'm sorry Diane Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/23/05 8:22 AM
 

rose825
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Diane I am so sorry that you have to go through this. I can only imagine how hard this is for you. It is unfair that you or anybody have to go through this. I think it is only natural for you to cry. So cry as much as you want!!!! And hopefully soon they will become tears of joy!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/23/05 8:30 AM
 

CookiePuss
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Diane, I'm sorry. I can't imagine what you and DH went through. If you need to cry;cry, it you need to scream; scream. You are entitled to every feeling you are having and it's probably part of the grieving and healing process. Lots of hugs...Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/23/05 8:42 AM
 

luvsun27
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Posted 11/23/05 8:47 AM
 

LisaW
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Posted 11/23/05 8:52 AM
 

mskimmy98
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Posted 11/23/05 8:53 AM
 

redstar
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Diane....just want to send you some hugsChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Miscarriages are so very emotional and when you combine it with infertility, it just breaks your heart. Just like Shamrock said, cry, scream, and do what you need to do. It is all part of the grieving and healing process.

Posted 11/23/05 9:02 AM
 

casey31
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Diane- I'm so sorry you are hurting right now. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/23/05 10:01 AM
 

Sharon
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It is so hard sometimes. Sending you Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/23/05 10:12 AM
 

karacg
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Posted 11/23/05 10:45 AM
 

FeliciaDP

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Its only normal to hurt having to go through this process again... my heart goes out to you Diane Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/23/05 10:49 AM
 

kat813
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sending you lots of Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

you are totally justified in feeling this way and don't beat yourself up over it. you've had a heck of a year and you are very strong and will get through this.

Posted 11/23/05 11:24 AM
 

Bran-loves-Tom
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Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon to you!!! So sorry you have to go through all of this!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/23/05 1:49 PM
 

Susan
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Chat Icon I'm so sorry, Diane. It must be especially hard for you to see your coworker who is at the exact stage you would be at if you hadn't miscarried. I just want to send you tons of Chat Icon Chat Icon and Chat Icon Chat Icon . I also want to send you tons of Chat Icon Chat Icon dust!! Chat Icon

Posted 11/23/05 7:37 PM
 

dooodles
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I am so sorry you broke down in the Dr's office. Those of us who suffered a loss know exactly what you are feeling and have felt it ourselves so please know you are not alone and we are here to support you Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I am also sorry about the announcement of your co-worker Chat Icon

Posted 11/23/05 7:42 PM
 

Gertyrae
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All I can do is sendChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
Keep your chin up, your time will come....Chat Icon

Posted 11/24/05 8:49 AM
 

04bride
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Posted 11/25/05 11:47 AM
 

DebG
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The cure IS worse!

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Diane, I don't know how I missed this post.
I am so sorry. If there is anything I can do to help, please feel free to FM me.

Posted 11/25/05 11:53 AM
 
 
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