LIFamilies.com - Long Island, NY


RSS
Articles Business Directory Blog Real Estate Community Forum Shop My Family Contests

Log In Chat Index Search Rules Lingo Create Account

Quick navigation:   

Would you buy a house with a sex offender in the neighborhood?

Posted By Message

WoodIAm
My Boys!

Member since 5/05

5498 total posts

Name:
JoAnne

Would you buy a house with a sex offender in the neighborhood?

DH and I found a great house but found out that there was a level 4 sex offender registered in the neighborhood. He was a "manny" and had "inappropriate contact with a minor girl"

DH is dead set against buying it. Part of me feels like why put ourselves in that position. The other part feels like I worry more about the guys that haven't been caught and I would be just as protective and cautious whether or not one was in the neighborhood.

I think my SIL's think I'm terrible for even thinking about it. Any thoughts?

Posted 8/25/07 11:06 AM
 
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource

lorimarie
AHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!

Member since 5/05

3753 total posts

Name:
Lori

Re: Would you buy a house with a sex offender in the neighborhood?

I agree - I would worry more about the ones that ARENT registered.

I think if its a great house and great neighborhood you shouldn't let 1 person ruin it.

I know where i grew up there are a few - definitely isn't hurting the resale there or stopping anyone from buying in the area.

Good luck :)

Posted 8/25/07 11:08 AM
 

jinglemommy
I <3 my boys!

Member since 12/06

1389 total posts

Name:
Kelly

Re: Would you buy a house with a sex offender in the neighborhood?

honestly i believe they are in every neighborhood. you can use a website to see how many are around....i believe familywatchdog.us

Message edited 8/25/2007 11:14:06 AM.

Posted 8/25/07 11:11 AM
 

Lucky
Growing up fast!

Member since 4/07

12683 total posts

Name:
Dawn

Re: Would you buy a house with a sex offender in the neighborhood?

Posted by lorimarie

I agree - I would worry more about the ones that ARENT registered.

I think if its a great house and great neighborhood you shouldn't let 1 person ruin it.

I know where i grew up there are a few - definitely isn't hurting the resale there or stopping anyone from buying in the area.

Good luck :)



ITA. Honestly & unfortunately, there are sex offenders in every neighborhood. If they don't live there, they could just as easily drive into any neighborhood. Just always proceed with caution!!

Posted 8/25/07 11:12 AM
 

nbc188
Best friends!

Member since 12/06

23090 total posts

Name:
C

Re: Would you buy a house with a sex offender in the neighborhood?

Posted by Lucky

Posted by lorimarie

I agree - I would worry more about the ones that ARENT registered.

I think if its a great house and great neighborhood you shouldn't let 1 person ruin it.

I know where i grew up there are a few - definitely isn't hurting the resale there or stopping anyone from buying in the area.

Good luck :)



ITA. Honestly & unfortunately, there are sex offenders in every neighborhood. If they don't live there, they could just as easily drive into any neighborhood. Just always proceed with caution!!



I agree too! And I've used the website posted above too, the watchdog website.

Posted 8/25/07 11:15 AM
 

EmmaNick
*

Member since 12/06

16001 total posts

Name:
*

Re: Would you buy a house with a sex offender in the neighborhood?

At least you know where he lives and what he looks like so you know to stay away from him. My immediate neighborhood doesn't have any, but there are some in the area. I just don't let DS play outside alone, ever.

Posted 8/25/07 11:22 AM
 

smdl
I love Gary too..on a plate!

Member since 5/06

32461 total posts

Name:
me

Re: Would you buy a house with a sex offender in the neighborhood?

I would not.

While this is true that they can be anywhere, I coud not move there knowning he lived near my house.

Posted 8/25/07 11:36 AM
 

cloddy
Holiday 2011 photo

Member since 8/05

8088 total posts

Name:
Kristen

Re: Would you buy a house with a sex offender in the neighborhood?

I think it might depend on what you mean by in the neighborhood. 10 or 15 blocks away is different than on your street or accross from the school or playground that your children will be using? KWIM. I'm not sure what I'd do. I don't envy you having to make that decision.

Posted 8/25/07 11:44 AM
 

nrthshgrl
It goes fast. Pay attention.

Member since 7/05

57538 total posts

Name:

Re: Would you buy a house with a sex offender in the neighborhood?

Posted by lorimarie

I agree - I would worry more about the ones that ARENT registered.

I think if its a great house and great neighborhood you shouldn't let 1 person ruin it.

I know where i grew up there are a few - definitely isn't hurting the resale there or stopping anyone from buying in the area.

Good luck :)



ITA.

Posted 8/25/07 11:45 AM
 

WoodIAm
My Boys!

Member since 5/05

5498 total posts

Name:
JoAnne

Re: Would you buy a house with a sex offender in the neighborhood?

Posted by jinglemommy

honestly i believe they are in every neighborhood. you can use a website to see how many are around....i believe familywatchdog.us



That's where we got the info. DH is in law enforcement so he got the full report. I'm glad to see so many people feel like I do. I'm not so bad after all ;)

Posted 8/25/07 12:51 PM
 

TwinMama
Love my little ladies

Member since 2/06

1225 total posts

Name:
Stephanie

Re: Would you buy a house with a sex offender in the neighborhood?

if you look on the sex offender website you will see that Sex offenders are in mostly every neighborhood. It's personal choice.

Posted 8/25/07 1:04 PM
 

preciouslove
I love my DS!!!

Member since 5/05

9340 total posts

Name:
Blank

Re: Would you buy a house with a sex offender in the neighborhood?

Posted by smdl

I would not.

While this is true that they can be anywhere, I coud not move there knowning he lived near my house.



I agree...Chat Icon

Posted 8/25/07 1:05 PM
 

kimmie
LIF Adult

Member since 5/05

1535 total posts

Name:
Kimberly

Re: Would you buy a house with a sex offender in the neighborhood?

Posted by bedda26

Posted by smdl

I would not.

While this is true that they can be anywhere, I coud not move there knowning he lived near my house.



I agree...Chat Icon


I too agreeChat Icon

Posted 8/25/07 1:08 PM
 

Claud
LIF Adolescent

Member since 6/05

759 total posts

Name:
Claudine

Re: Would you buy a house with a sex offender in the neighborhood?

Posted by nrthshgrl

Posted by lorimarie

I agree - I would worry more about the ones that ARENT registered.

I think if its a great house and great neighborhood you shouldn't let 1 person ruin it.

I know where i grew up there are a few - definitely isn't hurting the resale there or stopping anyone from buying in the area.

Good luck :)



ITA.



ITA, too.

But, if you or your husband would have paranoia everyday over this, it's not worth it.

Although I would caution you that sex offenders are everywhere and you could encounter this same issue w/the next house you find. You cannot live with a false sense of security that just b/c they are not living on your block, your children are safe. Parents need to be vigilant about protecting our children, no matter what.

Posted 8/25/07 1:46 PM
 

My3Shmoos
Me and my Monkey

Member since 7/06

2437 total posts

Name:
K

Re: Would you buy a house with a sex offender in the neighborhood?

We moved to our neighboorhood only to find out a month later that there was a Level 4 around the corner. What made it worse was that I actually looked at an almost put a bid on the house that would have been right next door.

I think that if the whole neighborhood knows about him EVERYONE is on the look out for everyones kids. That's how it is in my neighborhood.

In fact the sick SOB took a job as a pizza delivery guy at nights. I only figured it out after he delivered pizza twice. I shot up in bed at 3am and ran to the computer and pulled up his picture. I was sick to my stomach! I printed the picture out and brought it the next day to the pizza place1 The owner flipped and was mortified. I think we got free pizza for a month. When I toldmy neighbors what had happened, my one neighbor said the same thing that she thought she recognized him.

We all now are reglious about checking the ebsite to see if anyone new has moved in and we all look out for eachother.


If it's a great house go for it! I'm sure your neighbors are on guard also.

Message edited 8/25/2007 2:05:35 PM.

Posted 8/25/07 2:04 PM
 

yankinmanc
Happy Days!

Member since 8/05

18208 total posts

Name:

Re: Would you buy a house with a sex offender in the neighborhood?

Again, I wouldn't worry about the ones who are registered, I would worry about the ones who aren't!!!

Posted 8/25/07 4:35 PM
 

Chatham-Chick
*********************

Member since 5/05

10311 total posts

Name:

Re: Would you buy a house with a sex offender in the neighborhood?

Does he actually live there?

A girl I worked with had trouble selling her home b/c a sex offender was registered on her block. The scary part was that he didn't reside at the house and was never there. So he was obviously living elsewhere and those neighbors most likely had no clue of his sex offender status.

Like others have stated, you still have to worry about the ones we're not aware of.

Message edited 8/25/2007 4:54:16 PM.

Posted 8/25/07 4:53 PM
 

CkGm
They get so big, so fast :(

Member since 5/05

13848 total posts

Name:
Christine

Re: Would you buy a house with a sex offender in the neighborhood?

Good luck finding a house WITHOUT a sex offender in the neighborhood. We have at least 3 living within a 10 block radius(I checked). I would buy any way. At least he is registered. I guarentee many of us live around ones who haven't even been caughtChat Icon

Posted 8/25/07 5:19 PM
 

lipglossjunky73
My Everything!

Member since 11/05

35670 total posts

Name:
<3

Re: Would you buy a house with a sex offender in the neighborhood?

I typed in our address and found about 15 in our area.... Chat Icon

when I told DH, he said - they are everywhere....

you just need to keep your child safe and protected. Just because you know abut him doesnt mean he's the only one there. He could be your next door neighbor for all you know...

I probably wouldnt let it stop me from buying a great home. But I would be extra careful about making sure my kids were always in my sight!!!

Posted 8/25/07 6:15 PM
 
 

Potentially Related Topics:

Topic Posted By Started Replies Forum
Is anyone actually going to buy this house? Gertyrae 2/26/06 10 Home
Did anyone rent a house with the option to buy... BaroqueMama 2/1/06 6 Home
Want to Buy Nick & Jessica's House? Elbee 1/9/06 29 Families Helping Families ™
ANYONE BUY A HOUSE TO RENT OUT OR FLIP IT?? NoStressMom 1/6/06 0 Home
Would you ever buy a house sight unseen? skew 6/30/05 17 Home
Anyone buy a house to "flip it" june262004 6/18/05 11 Home
 
Quick navigation:   
Currently 722675 users on the LIFamilies.com Chat
New Businesses
1 More Rep
Carleton Hall of East Islip
J&A Building Services
LaraMae Health Coaching
Sonic Wellness
Julbaby Photography LLC
Ideal Uniforms
Teresa Geraghty Photography
Camelot Dream Homes
Long Island Wedding Boutique
MB Febus- Rodan & Fields
Camp Harbor
Market America-Shop.com
ACM Basement Waterproofing
Travel Tom

      Follow LIWeddings on Facebook

      Follow LIFamilies on Twitter
Long Island Bridal Shows