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italy0308
LIF Infant
Member since 12/06 147 total posts
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Dena
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Wow
After everything we have gone through with specialists and not being able to get pregnant, my husband has been the "rock" during this.. Well, I was so shocked tonight, he broke down and cried. I could not believe it. Of course, seeing him cry, I was hysterical. I didn't know everything was bothering him, he never shows any emotions.. Always tells me he's ok..He said he doesn't want to put anymore stress on me, that's why he never says that he's sad or worried about everything. We just held each other and talked about it.. It's getting really stressful/frustrating now! Sorry for the little vent
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JsWife
His laugh, Her smile
Member since 12/06 2902 total posts
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Patricia
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Re: Wow
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| Posted 11/28/07 6:24 AM |
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Diane
Hope is Contagious....catch it
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| Posted 11/28/07 7:12 AM |
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Gertyrae
Peace out Homies!
Member since 5/05 20046 total posts
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Gerty ®
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Re: Wow
My DH did that after the fifth failed transfer. He had been so strong all along, but for some reason that failed transfer took him over the top.
You'll get there, sometimes the road is long, but you'll get there.
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| Posted 11/28/07 7:12 AM |
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runlikethewind
Love my babies!
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Re: Wow
This is not easy and I think eventually even men who are not emotional cave at some point. It tears my heart out everyday when I see how easily some get pregnant multiple times.
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| Posted 11/28/07 7:14 AM |
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LaurenExp
Waiting patiently for baby sis
Member since 8/06 11613 total posts
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Re: Wow
I completely understand where you're coming from. Its so hard because we're usually the emotional ones and they're the rocks. When they break down its really painful.
But at least you know he's 100% committed to this and he proved it to you. After a good cry I always feel empowered. I hope it does the same for you guys.
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| Posted 11/28/07 7:28 AM |
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Carolyn
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Twin mommy
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| Posted 11/28/07 8:48 AM |
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Bxgell2
Perfection
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Beth
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| Posted 11/28/07 9:11 AM |
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lemonlime
Member since 1/07 1226 total posts
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Jennifer
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Re: Wow
Posted by LaurenExp
I completely understand where you're coming from. Its so hard because we're usually the emotional ones and they're the rocks. When they break down its really painful.
But at least you know he's 100% committed to this and he proved it to you. After a good cry I always feel empowered. I hope it does the same for you guys.
I completely agree. I think I take for granted that he is so strong and I'm the weaker one. Good luck to you!
Message edited 11/28/2007 11:06:19 AM.
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| Posted 11/28/07 11:05 AM |
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MrsPornStar
Partners in crime
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Mama
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Re: Wow
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| Posted 11/28/07 11:53 AM |
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italy0308
LIF Infant
Member since 12/06 147 total posts
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Dena
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Re: Wow
Thank you all! He said he felt alot better. I'm glad. Since I had no idea it was getting to him! You ladies are amazing! I'm so glad I found this site!
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| Posted 11/28/07 2:27 PM |
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hopin4baby
LIF Adolescent
Member since 4/07 759 total posts
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Allison
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Re: Wow
I think its harder on the guys than we think. I was upset last week after AF came early and DH didn't really say anything so I told him he didn't care, but he told me was actually disappointed when I told him I had started bleeding. This was only our first cycle really being able to try so to know that he did feel bad was different.
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| Posted 11/28/07 7:01 PM |
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babystuff1
LIF Toddler
Member since 8/07 420 total posts
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Twins for us!!!!
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Re: Wow
Glad he is feeling better.. I always dismiss my DH feelings about this, and really I shouldn't because he is hurting just as much as me 
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| Posted 11/29/07 8:47 AM |
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italy0308
LIF Infant
Member since 12/06 147 total posts
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Dena
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Re: Wow
Posted by babystuff1
Glad he is feeling better.. I always dismiss my DH feelings about this, and really I shouldn't because he is hurting just as much as me
Thank you!!
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| Posted 11/30/07 9:51 AM |
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