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mikeandjess
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x-post: life insurance beneficiary question

who is your beneficiary on your life insurance and what are the percentages? I honestly know nothing about this. DH has me as 50% and then has his brothers and sisters as 50%. He chose a plan that is more expensive so that I'd still be getting the same amount that I would be getting if he had the lower plan but he also wants his brothers and sisters to be taken care of. I ask because his sister seemed extremely shocked that I wasn't 100% beneficiary. I should also mention we have no children and a mortgage on the apt. but DH made sure that would be covered. Sorry if this is worded strangely, I hardly know what I'm talking about.

Posted 5/4/09 11:02 PM
 
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Sash
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fka LIW Smara

Re: x-post: life insurance beneficiary question

My DH is 100%; however, he will give a certain percentage to my neices in account for them. we have no children. I want him to be take care of our bills first.. mortgage etc..

I am 100% on his.. It is on me to take care of his son.

Posted 5/4/09 11:11 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: x-post: life insurance beneficiary question

We are 100% on each other's. However we have 2 children. Our children are secondary beneficiaries if we predecease them.

Posted 5/5/09 7:07 AM
 

Blu-ize
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Re: x-post: life insurance beneficiary question

He should have you 100% on his life insurance. If he wants to provide for his siblings he should map that out in a will for you to take care of upon his death.
Are his parents still alive?

Posted 5/5/09 7:19 AM
 

mikeandjess
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Re: x-post: life insurance beneficiary question

Posted by Blu-ize

He should have you 100% on his life insurance. If he wants to provide for his siblings he should map that out in a will for you to take care of upon his death.
Are his parents still alive?




That is exactly what I told him! Yes, his parents are still alive.

Posted 5/5/09 8:00 AM
 

GoldenRod
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Shawn

Re: x-post: life insurance beneficiary question

Posted by nrthshgrl

We are 100% on each other's. However we have 2 children. Our children are secondary beneficiaries if we predecease them.



Same here. DC are split 50/50 as secondaries.

Posted 5/5/09 8:07 AM
 

ali120206
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Re: x-post: life insurance beneficiary question

DH is my beneficiary and I am his - 100%.

Posted 5/5/09 8:36 AM
 

lullabella
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Re: x-post: life insurance beneficiary question

I have a seperate life insurance policy in which my sister is my beneficiay. She is 18 years old, I am 34. I took it out about 10 years ago and she will remain the beneficiary on it. I have 2 other siblings who are closer to my age and I don't have them as beneficiaries. Since my sister is so much younger, I wanted her to have something godforbid something happens to me, since I am her living piggybank.

Posted 5/5/09 8:43 AM
 

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Re: x-post: life insurance beneficiary question

Posted by lullabella

I have a seperate life insurance policy in which my sister is my beneficiay. She is 18 years old, I am 34. I took it out about 10 years ago and she will remain the beneficiary on it. I have 2 other siblings who are closer to my age and I don't have them as beneficiaries. Since my sister is so much younger, I wanted her to have something godforbid something happens to me, since I am her living piggybank.



now that makes sense.

Posted 5/5/09 9:12 AM
 

neener1211
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J

Re: x-post: life insurance beneficiary question

We are 100% each others, and DS is 100% contingency beneficiary.

Before I was married, I had my parents, then my siblings as contingency. It was changed after marriage.

Posted 5/5/09 9:54 AM
 

MikesWife
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Re: x-post: life insurance beneficiary question

We are 100% each others beneficiaries. Before we got married it was my parents.

I don't know, maybe it's because we share all of our money, but I don't know that I would like "our" money paying for insurance to benefit them. Or maybe I'm just selfish..........

Posted 5/5/09 11:52 AM
 

Otherme
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Re: x-post: life insurance beneficiary question

Posted by MikesWife

We are 100% each others beneficiaries. Before we got married it was my parents.

I don't know, maybe it's because we share all of our money, but I don't know that I would like "our" money paying for insurance to benefit them. Or maybe I'm just selfish..........



I agree with this actually.. if you're sharing your money/income, then you should be 100% each others beneficiary. Its one thing to have a separate policy that takes care of siblings, or as another poster said, stipulate it in the will. But IMO as a spouse, you should be 100% beneficiary

Posted 5/5/09 1:09 PM
 

JandJ1224

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Jannette

Re: x-post: life insurance beneficiary question

We are 100% eachothers

Posted 5/5/09 4:46 PM
 

LightUpOurLife
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Bonnie-Jean

Re: x-post: life insurance beneficiary question

He is 100% my beneficiary. Before marriage I had my three godchildren. I have no idea if I am his beneficiary.

Posted 5/5/09 5:37 PM
 

JennChris
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Jenn

Re: x-post: life insurance beneficiary question

My DH and I are both 100% on each.. then my Mother as trustee for the children if we both pass.

Posted 5/5/09 7:04 PM
 

Erica
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Re: x-post: life insurance beneficiary question

Posted by neener1211

We are 100% each others, and DS is 100% contingency beneficiary.

Before I was married, I had my parents, then my siblings as contingency. It was changed after marriage.




I actually did the opposite when I was single...My mom thought it was better that my sister was primary, since she would most likely outlive my mom. I think I still have them on my retirement Chat Icon

DH and I are both 100%

Posted 5/5/09 10:10 PM
 
 

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