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x-post- relationship with DH in trouble

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mommy2devin
2 Boys, I need calgon!

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Shannon

x-post- relationship with DH in trouble

Thank you for any advice you might have, if any. I don't know what I'm looking for here but don't know what to do about this....

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Posted 1/12/09 11:40 AM
 
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casey31
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Mommy to two boys and a girl

Re: x-post- relationship with DH in trouble

I had PPD too - after both babies- those were the darkest days of my life- thank God for the medication- I was lucky that I responded to it so quickly.

Ugh- I am so sorry that your DH isn't being supportive. Please know, that only another mommy can REALLY understand how hard it is. If you DH isn't getting it then that's HIS problem. WE can vouch for you and affirm that it is almost IMPOSSIBLE to cook, clean and engage a 2 year old all day.

Please do not let his comments and attitude hurt your self-esteem. It sounds like you are a wonderful mom and wonderful wife.

IMO- you need to have a sit down and tell DH how he is making you feel. Tell him that the ONLY way for him to understand why you cannot get all the cooking and cleaning done is for you to leave on a Satuday at 7:00am and not return until 6:00pm. You expect DS to be clean, fed and the house to be clean and dinner on the table. Then see what happens. Chat Icon

Posted 1/12/09 12:20 PM
 

dawnygirl25
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