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you have ever someone who you thought was mad at you but you have absolutely no clue why?????

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alnem
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you have ever someone who you thought was mad at you but you have absolutely no clue why?????

thanks girls!Chat Icon

Message edited 11/24/2007 6:03:23 PM.

Posted 11/23/07 5:57 PM
 
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MeeshkaMich
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Re: you have ever someone who you thought was mad at you but you have absolutely no clue why?????

yep. my ex would just blow up for no reason whatsoever. half the time i had no clue *** was wrong. Chat Icon

Message edited 11/23/2007 6:00:09 PM.

Posted 11/23/07 6:00 PM
 

Phyl
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Re: you have ever someone who you thought was mad at you but you have absolutely no clue why?????

Would you feel ok with saying to her, "Did I do something to offend you"? We haven't spoken in a couple weeks like we normally do and I miss our chats.

It can't hurt at this point right? I hate when things like this happen and always work something similar when I'm able to.

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Posted 11/23/07 6:20 PM
 

Maathy317
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Re: you have ever someone who you thought was mad at you but you have absolutely no clue why?????

I was estranged from my husband's family for 10 years. They just stopped talking to me. To this day I have no idea what I did, although, I have a very good idea who started it all. I know I didn't do anything wrong and when my husband would ask he never got a straight answer. The past three years, it's like nothing happened. They were here for Thanksgiving and we had a great time. I can't waste my time and energy trying to figure out what I might have done to someone if they don't have the guts to tell me. I would have more respect for someone if they came up to me and told me what I had done wrong instead of playing stupid, childish games.

Edited to add: I, also, had a "friend" who did this to me. Needless to say, she is no longer my friend.

Message edited 11/23/2007 6:29:51 PM.

Posted 11/23/07 6:29 PM
 

alnem
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Re: you have ever someone who you thought was mad at you but you have absolutely no clue why?????

Posted by Phyl

Would you feel ok with saying to her, "Did I do something to offend you"? We haven't spoken in a couple weeks like we normally do and I miss our chats.

It can't hurt at this point right? I hate when things like this happen and always work something similar when I'm able to.

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Message edited 11/24/2007 6:03:50 PM.

Posted 11/23/07 6:32 PM
 

Phyl
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The Mystical Azzhorse! ™

Re: you have ever someone who you thought was mad at you but you have absolutely no clue why?????

Posted by alnem

Posted by Phyl

Would you feel ok with saying to her, "Did I do something to offend you"? We haven't spoken in a couple weeks like we normally do and I miss our chats.

It can't hurt at this point right? I hate when things like this happen and always work something similar when I'm able to.

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well we're supposed to have this bridal party luncheon tomorrow and go BM dress shopping with her other BM's. so if she acts weird tomorrow then i'll ask her. if not, maybe its all just in my head.Chat Icon

i have no problem asking her that question, i just hate showing people that they're getting to me kwim? Chat Icon



I know exactly what you mean! Hopefully you will have an opportunity to work it into a conversation. Something along the lines of her being stressed about the wedding stuff, which is normal, and just kind of work it into the conversation of how you are there to help her etc...Good luckChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/23/07 6:44 PM
 

islandersgirl74
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Re: you have ever someone who you thought was mad at you but you have absolutely no clue why?????

Posted by shellybelle

yep. my ex would just blow up for no reason whatsoever. half the time i had no clue *** was wrong. Chat Icon



same here
but more recently I was getting the cold shoulder from a very good friend at work and I had no clue why. I couldnt think of anything I could have possibly done to piss her off. Luckily, she has come around and we seem to be back on track but it annoyed me she had an attitude with me and I had no clue why.

Posted 11/23/07 11:13 PM
 

orchid24
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Re: you have ever someone who you thought was mad at you but you have absolutely no clue why?????

OMG you have FM

Posted 11/24/07 1:55 PM
 

CkGm
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Re: you have ever someone who you thought was mad at you but you have absolutely no clue why?????

That's awfulChat Icon I hate the silent treatment- call her up!

My SIL hasn't spoken to me since our family trip in August but I can't stand her so I am thrilled. But I have no idea why either. Chat Icon But I am not complainingChat Icon

Posted 11/24/07 4:20 PM
 
 
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