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You know what I hate sometimes?

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BaroqueMama
Chase is one!

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me

You know what I hate sometimes?

The fact that my husband has no opinion on things. I just wish one time he would say, "Honey, we're going to XYZ restaurant for dinner" or "I'd really like XYZ for dinner tonight".
Is that too much to ask for? I feel like I have to be a mind reader. It's getting to be a very annoying taskChat Icon

Posted 2/13/07 7:14 PM
 
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sasha96
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Member since 5/05

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Name:
Julianne

Re: You know what I hate sometimes?

I know how you feel. My DH has turned the phrase "I don't know" into an indistinguishible-to-anyone-but-me grunt!

Posted 2/13/07 7:18 PM
 

LiPo
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Member since 9/06

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Name:
Lisa

Re: You know what I hate sometimes?

"What do you want for dinner?" "I don't know, what do you want?"

We can do that for hours!
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Posted 2/13/07 7:18 PM
 

JodiBabe
Married for 9 yrs!!!!!!

Member since 5/05

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Jodi

Re: You know what I hate sometimes?

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awwwww and when you aren't feeling well it is even worse. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/13/07 7:18 PM
 

LisaW
Time for me to FLY!

Member since 5/05

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Did I ever tell you that I hate people?

Re: You know what I hate sometimes?

omg, my husband is the same way!!!!

He never "cares" Chat Icon

Posted 2/13/07 7:19 PM
 

BaroqueMama
Chase is one!

Member since 5/05

27530 total posts

Name:
me

Re: You know what I hate sometimes?

I mean, everyone tells me, "Oh, you should feel lucky because MY dh is difficult", but him having no opinion IS being difficult to me. Sometimes I want to be taken care of and I feel like making ALL the decisions, even down to what's for dinner, is me having to take care of him.

Oh, also, I apologize because I thought I posted this on the relationship board.Chat Icon

Posted 2/13/07 7:22 PM
 

Jax430
Hi!

Member since 5/05

18919 total posts

Name:
Jackie

Re: You know what I hate sometimes?

Posted by prncssrachel

I mean, everyone tells me, "Oh, you should feel lucky because MY dh is difficult", but him having no opinion IS being difficult to me. Sometimes I want to be taken care of and I feel like making ALL the decisions, even down to what's for dinner, is me having to take care of him.



OMG, I could have written this. Whenever I ask DH what he wants to do or eat, or whatever, he says, "I don't know." I usually reply, "Well, THINK ABOUT IT!" It drives me nuts. If I didn't plan things and make decisions, we would seriously do nothing and never have dinner. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
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Message edited 2/13/2007 7:26:07 PM.

Posted 2/13/07 7:25 PM
 

cj7305
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Member since 8/05

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Re: You know what I hate sometimes?

OMG I COULD HAVE WRITTEN THE SAME POST! Drives me nuts!!Chat Icon Just make a decision, please!

Posted 2/13/07 7:27 PM
 

scarletbegonia
Mr. Handsome

Member since 5/06

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Name:
V

Re: You know what I hate sometimes?

Ugh - this is the one thing about DH that drives me CRAZY!!!!!

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Posted 2/13/07 7:34 PM
 

Bri
I Love You to Pieces!

Member since 5/05

9919 total posts

Name:
Brianne

Re: You know what I hate sometimes?

I hear ya! It is the number one leading cause of arguments between us.

Posted 2/13/07 7:35 PM
 

MrsPorkChop
Twinning!!

Member since 5/05

9941 total posts

Name:
Missy

Re: You know what I hate sometimes?

Posted by prncssrachel

The fact that my husband has no opinion on things. I just wish one time he would say, "Honey, we're going to XYZ restaurant for dinner" or "I'd really like XYZ for dinner tonight".
Is that too much to ask for? I feel like I have to be a mind reader. It's getting to be a very annoying taskChat Icon




be careful what you wish for!

my husband is a creature of habit and loves gfoing to the same places

not like i mind but hes not big on variety thus knows exactly what he wants!

Posted 2/13/07 7:47 PM
 

Maathy317
Grammie's Little Man

Member since 2/06

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D

Re: You know what I hate sometimes?

Talk to me after 30 years. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/13/07 7:51 PM
 

Christine
2nd verse same as the 1st

Member since 5/05

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Re: You know what I hate sometimes?

Were you just eavesdropping on DH & I? We go through this every single night. Chat Icon

Posted 2/13/07 7:52 PM
 

BikerGrl
Merry Christmas!

Member since 5/05

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It's not the destination....it's the journey!

Re: You know what I hate sometimes?

Posted by prncssrachel

I mean, everyone tells me, "Oh, you should feel lucky because MY dh is difficult", but him having no opinion IS being difficult to me. Sometimes I want to be taken care of and I feel like making ALL the decisions, even down to what's for dinner, is me having to take care of him.





I feel that!
Chat Icon My DH is the same way. He will RARELY if ever say "I want porkchops for dinner"......sometimes not having to decide what to make would be nice!!!

I don't mind making it....just say what you want darn it!!!!

Posted 2/13/07 9:49 PM
 

Booklady1017
Information Goddess

Member since 5/05

4149 total posts

Name:
Michelle

Re: You know what I hate sometimes?

Yeah whenever we go out to eat, I ask him where he wants to go and he says, where do you want to go?

Posted 2/13/07 9:59 PM
 

GoldenRod
10 years on LIF!

Member since 11/06

26792 total posts

Name:
Shawn

Re: You know what I hate sometimes?

I used to do the "I don't care" response a lot, until I noticed that it really annoyed DW. I've admitted to her that now, even if I don't have a decision, I'll sometimes pick the first choice she gives me, or the first one alphabetically, just so it appears I have an opinion.... She's happier, and I'm happier because she's happier, and I still don't have to make a real decision.... Chat Icon

Posted 2/14/07 7:34 AM
 

JennZ
MY LIFE!!

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Re: You know what I hate sometimes?

Posted by LiPo

"What do you want for dinner?" "I don't know, what do you want?"

We can do that for hours!
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Oh Welcome to my life. Chat Icon

Posted 2/14/07 7:48 AM
 

MsMBV
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Member since 5/05

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Me

Re: You know what I hate sometimes?

their penis gives them the inability to make a decision....it is geneticChat Icon

Posted 2/14/07 7:56 AM
 
 

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