|
Your spouse's friends...are they your SO's responsibility or yours?
| Posted By |
Message |
MissJones
I need a nap!
Member since 5/05 22136 total posts
Name:
|
Your spouse's friends...are they your SO's responsibility or yours?
Gifts, b-days, anniversaries, etc...whose responsibility are they?
For Xmas, I bought DH's BF's baby a gift but I thought they were coming to NY. The didn't come and he JUST saw the gift and asked why I never mailed it. 
Message edited 2/22/2008 10:22:55 AM.
|
Posted 2/22/08 10:22 AM  |
| |
|
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource |
browneyedgirl
family is all that matters
Member since 6/06 6513 total posts
Name:
browneyes
|
Re: Your spouse's friends...are they your SO's responsibility or yours?
his. but we don't send gifts or anything. but it would be his job to call them or write a card
|
| Posted 2/22/08 10:25 AM |
| |
|
ctrain1124
Our Gang!
Member since 8/07 3190 total posts
Name:
C
|
Re: Your spouse's friends...are they your SO's responsibility or yours?
Me. But he would do it. But I would have to remind him ten times so it's just easier for me to do it myself!
|
| Posted 2/22/08 10:28 AM |
| |
|
leighla
Support Cancer Research
Member since 5/05 16353 total posts
Name:
Lauren
|
Re: Your spouse's friends...are they your SO's responsibility or yours?
After years of stressing out about his friends and family birthdays, etc. I decided to give it up.
It was increased pressure I was putting on myself - he never asked me to do it and didn't seem to care if it didn't get done.
If he doesn't feel the need to do it I shouldn't and I just had to come to terms with that. I'll remind him if dates are coming and that's it.
|
| Posted 2/22/08 10:31 AM |
| |
|
MissJones
I need a nap!
Member since 5/05 22136 total posts
Name:
|
Re: Your spouse's friends...are they your SO's responsibility or yours?
Posted by leighla
I'll remind him if dates are coming and that's it.
That I do, too. And when it comes to his family, I'm on him even more AND we'll shop together. It just ticks me off that he's ****** at me for not mailing the gift when he wasn't exactly doing backflips to buy a gift in the first place.
|
| Posted 2/22/08 10:49 AM |
| |
|
Potentially Related Topics:
Currently 15994 users on the LIFamilies.com Chat
|
