Where are my Bachelor people?

I have watched every season since this show started and I am so mad!

How is it that a grown ass man who CHOSE to be the Bachelor realizes he is not ready for marriage at the 11th hour when his mom says something? Are you kidding me?

And then the way he treated Rachel on ATFR was so mean. The girl has been raked over the coals, she has apologized over and over and then he proceeds to humiliate her by refusing to hug her? Really? Obviously he did not love her at all. That was cruel. I think it was a convenient excuse for him to dump her.

I thought the guy who stepped in for Chris did a good job. I thought he asked good questions. Although I was waiting for him to split his pants.

Where are my Bachelor people?

Yes, I agree with everything you said. It was AWFUL when he wouldn't hug her at the end, although I don't know why the host even suggested it. If Matt had any feelings for Rachel, he never would have treated her like that. If he had really loved her, it seems to me like something they could have at least tried to work through together - maybe he wouldn't have been able to get over it, but at least TRY.

And OMG that guys suit was 2 sizes too small! It was ridiculous. I have no idea how he got his arms in that jacket

ETA: I hate Matt's beard! That thing needs to go!

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Re: Where are my Bachelor people?

Worst season ever! He was such a boring dud. I don't know why anyone was into him.

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I agree with everything said here. I felt so bad for her, trying to reach for his hand to comfort him, and he was so cold with her. He found an excuse to break up with her because he wasn't ready to commit. There were so many good girls this season, but he wasn't looking for anything serious.

The host was great, but on a shallow note I agree about his outfit.

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So, upon further reflection, yes I spend that much time thinking about it LOL, I think there was a lot that we are not privy to. Okay..so hear me out... he was not cold or uncaring at all the entire season but he was like a brick of ice on ATFR. I wonder if there is more that she did behind the scenes that has him so closed off to her. I mean, for her to say she didn't realize the meaning and how offensive it was, blah blah blah, and explain herself to him when it happened and in private, I can't imagine he would just immediately dump her and be so cold. I feel like there has to be more to it.

Where are my Bachelor people?

He totally led Rachael and Michelle on!! How can he agree to go on that show and not be ready for marriage?!?

I saw a big change in him when he canceled his final date with Rachael after dumping Michelle. That was before any of the controversy about her was released.

If he really loved her, he wouldn't have canceled that final date and let her sit alone in a hotel room all day wondering and worrying about what's going on.

And that beard blechhh