| Posted By |
Message |
NewTTCer
LIF Infant
Member since 7/05 77 total posts
Name:
olh
|
Angry
I am just starting to feel so angry..I always thought I would not obsess about getting pregnant, and when it would happen, it would happen...
Well, now I am just feeling angry...people keep asking when we are having kids, we keep trying to get pregnant, we keep seeing announcements from friends and family...
I just want to cry my eyes out every time I think about it, and its stressing me out to the max...its on my mind non-stop...I need to shake this feeling...
PLUS on top of this, my period has pretty much become irregular since we started trying...its just so frustrating..I am not sad anymore, I am just ANGRY.
I know a lot of us are in the same boat, but I cannot help but be angry these days
|
Posted 12/3/06 8:11 PM  |
| |
|
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource |
|
|
Re: Angry
Try and relax. Getting angry isn't going to help anything. It WILL happen, just make take some time. 
|
| Posted 12/3/06 8:18 PM |
| |
|
sosurprised
LIF Toddler
Member since 10/06 393 total posts
Name:
|
Re: Angry
I understand how you feel, but for different reasons. I haven't been trying long, but I did have a m/c in October. As soon as it happened to me, I heard about 5 announcements of friends and family that are expecting...plus everyone at work was grilling me about it! It was awful. I was angry and upset. I even locked myself in my bedroom one Friday night and cried my eyes out after I heard another friend was pg.
I am here if you need to chat! This isn't such a fun process.
|
| Posted 12/3/06 8:26 PM |
| |
|
DRMom
Two in Blue
Member since 5/05 20223 total posts
Name:
Melissa
|
Re: Angry
How has your period changed? Do you still ovulate around the same time?
|
| Posted 12/3/06 10:04 PM |
| |
|
Goldi0218
My miracles!
Member since 12/05 23902 total posts
Name:
Leslie
|
Re: Angry
Posted by sosurprised
I even locked myself in my bedroom one Friday night and cried my eyes out after I heard another friend was pg.
I am here if you need to chat! This isn't such a fun process.
Thats been me too. I try so hard to be happy for others. I really am happy for them but I can't keep myself from getting upset and crying about it. And frankly, I am really tired of hearing that I should relax. I can't. Hearing that makes me angrier.
You are not alone and you can feel however you want to feel.
|
| Posted 12/3/06 10:33 PM |
| |
|
curliegirl
He's here!!!!
Member since 3/06 10128 total posts
Name:
Gina
|
Re: Angry
sorry to hear that you are so upset. It can be hard to hear of what seems like EVERYONE getting pregnant. It intensifies the anxiety to have a baby of your own!!!!
I hope things work out, but please try not to stress, it may make it harder for you. It sounds like you need to maybe start charting and paying close attention to your body so you know exactly when to BD.......good luck!!!!   
|
| Posted 12/4/06 1:33 PM |
| |
|
mikeswife06
Drama Momma
Member since 9/06 9947 total posts
Name:
Anne
|
Re: Angry
Believe me, you are not alone. I have never been angrier before in my life and for some reason I keep getting this one message...
Stay positive.
First it came to me in a meeting with my medium. He talked to us about projection and that we have to be more positive. Then I caught this movie "The Secret" about how the world is based on the Laws of Attraction so even if you are going "gotta get out of debt, gotta get out of debt" you are giving attention and thereby attracting more debt. THEN, I wake up Sunday morning to Crefto Dollar preaching about taking the authority and the power to change things and to be positive. I was like WOW, I guess I am pissing somebody off with my negativity. I just thoght it was pretty powerful how strong the message was coming across and I am trying to be positive but its not easy. I am going through so much with this m/c and my dr's and waiting for AF to show up....argh!!!! 
|
| Posted 12/4/06 5:41 PM |
| |
|
Bklyngrl
luvmyfamily
Member since 9/06 5307 total posts
Name:
|
Re: Angry
i can relate too - - i'm almost dreading seeing more family at the holidays because when i saw them a couple of months ago all i get is the "we hope to hear good news by Christmas" ....
|
| Posted 12/5/06 9:57 AM |
| |
|
mrsratz
LIF Infant
Member since 10/05 195 total posts
Name:
Pam
|
Re: Angry
WOW...reading your post pretty much summed up how I have been feeling. I'm now on month 5, which I know is not that abnormal, but I just want this so badly that it has become more of a obession than anything else. I wish I could just relaz about the whole thing. MY DH doesn't know what to do with me anymore.
You're not alone in this. I wish you lots of luck and much baby dust this month.
|
| Posted 12/5/06 3:51 PM |
| |
|
DRMom
Two in Blue
Member since 5/05 20223 total posts
Name:
Melissa
|
Re: Angry
Contrary to what most doctors have said I read in Dr.Toth's book(he is a world renowned scientist and ob/gyn/pathologist) that if you have not gotten pregnant and know when you ovulate and are BD'ing for the proper amt of days that there may be a deeper issue.
|
| Posted 12/5/06 4:21 PM |
| |
|
|
|
Re: Angry
I can totally relate. I swore to my friends and family that I would be very casual about TTCing but I have become a crying, stressed out mess.
I was on BCP for around 5 yrs then stopped for 2-3 months before TTCing and I had a perfect 28 day cycle. Then of course, the month I TTC for the 1st time, my AF is late, tests are neg. and I feel so upset all the time.
Dont let other people stress you out about it, this is YOUR family!
|
| Posted 12/5/06 4:41 PM |
| |
|
nmp070106
My girls!!
Member since 8/06 5843 total posts
Name:
Nicole
|
Re: Angry
|
| Posted 12/6/06 6:49 PM |
| |
|
