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beautyq115
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Bad day today...
Went to try on BM dresses for my brothers wedding in August...I am feeling soooo disgusted and horrible about myself! I HATE THE WAY I LOOK! And you know its bad when you say "god I have so much weight to lose" and they agree with you
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Posted 1/23/07 6:30 PM  |
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Re: Bad day today...
Don't listen to anyone, I'm sure you looked beautiful! 
Message edited 1/23/2007 6:37:00 PM.
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| Posted 1/23/07 6:36 PM |
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beautyq115
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Re: Bad day today...
Posted by Mrs. Patticakes
Don't listen to anyone, I'm sure you looked beautiful!
NO I really didn't Just say "no you look fine" I take everything to heart...especially about my weight...ALWAYS HAVE ALWAYS WILL
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| Posted 1/23/07 6:38 PM |
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Re: Bad day today...
Posted by beautyq115
Posted by Mrs. Patticakes
Don't listen to anyone, I'm sure you looked beautiful!
NO I really didn't Just say "no you look fine" I take everything to heart...especially about my weight...ALWAYS HAVE ALWAYS WILL
Wow it's as if I wrote that..You sound just like me  I'm so sorry. I have always based so much on my weight and it does take it's toll after a while...I've seen pics of you in your album and from LIW and I think you are beautiful. Please feel better.
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| Posted 1/23/07 7:19 PM |
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NewlyMrs
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Re: Bad day today...
Cheer up!!!
Of course it's easy to say, don't listen them,,,,but we are our worst critics. If you think you want to get into better shape then do it...FOR YOU, not others. The best thing you can do for yourself is be happy in your own skin!
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| Posted 1/23/07 7:42 PM |
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Bri
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Re: Bad day today...
Posted by Mrs. Patticakes
Posted by beautyq115
Posted by Mrs. Patticakes
Don't listen to anyone, I'm sure you looked beautiful!
NO I really didn't Just say "no you look fine" I take everything to heart...especially about my weight...ALWAYS HAVE ALWAYS WILL
Wow it's as if I wrote that..You sound just like me I'm so sorry. I have always based so much on my weight and it does take it's toll after a while...I've seen pics of you in your album and from LIW and I think you are beautiful. Please feel better.
I've been there. You are beautiful and I think you have to hit the point where you just can't take it anymore. It is so hard to get motivated, but once you do, you will be fine. Just know how beautiful you are and the rest will fall into place!
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| Posted 1/23/07 7:47 PM |
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beautyq115
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Re: Bad day today...
Thank you ladies...I love coming on this board!
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| Posted 1/23/07 9:12 PM |
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JoCaCoLa
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Re: Bad day today...
Please don't be so hard on yourself, it will only hinder your ability to lose what you feel you need to. Yes, we are all allowed to have our bads days, but just try really hard to stay positive. You are beautiful, and remember that's in any shape!!
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| Posted 1/23/07 9:18 PM |
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MikesWife
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You are such a beautiful woman and the weight loss WILL happen.
Work is the hardest place for me food wise, so I hang signs around my cubicle. One of my favorite is "long term benefits outweigh short term gratification."
Maybe you can make signs or keep a journal and everytime you feel tempted, instead of reaching for a snack, write something down in your journal.
Another thing that helps me is at night instead of a snack, I give myself a manicure. It keeps my hands busy.
You WILL do it.
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azoodie
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Re: Bad day today...
Kathy!!!!!!!!!! Don't be so down on yourself. EVERYONE (no matter what they look like) has these days where they feel awful about themselves.
I've met you, you're beautiful, and I would KILL to be in the "shape" you're in  
If you stick with things you'll eventually feel better about yourself, don't let this get you down or off track
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| Posted 1/24/07 8:53 AM |
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Shanti
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Re: Bad day today...
You will get there... you are beautiful now, you just have to open your eyes to see it
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| Posted 1/24/07 6:03 PM |
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beautyq115
New Year!
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Re: Bad day today...
Posted by azoodie
Kathy!!!!!!!!!! Don't be so down on yourself. EVERYONE (no matter what they look like) has these days where they feel awful about themselves.
I've met you, you're beautiful, and I would KILL to be in the "shape" you're in
If you stick with things you'll eventually feel better about yourself, don't let this get you down or off track
Azad you saw me only 2 months after my wedding...I have gained BUT thank you...you are too sweet
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bklyngirl
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Re: Bad day today...
Posted by azoodie
Kathy!!!!!!!!!! Don't be so down on yourself. EVERYONE (no matter what they look like) has these days where they feel awful about themselves.
I've met you, you're beautiful, and I would KILL to be in the "shape" you're in
If you stick with things you'll eventually feel better about yourself, don't let this get you down or off track
i agree and i saw her last month
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| Posted 1/24/07 8:51 PM |
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azoodie
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Re: Bad day today...
Posted by beautyq115
Azad you saw me only 2 months after my wedding...I have gained BUT thank you...you are too sweet
Sweetie, I just saw a pic of you from twoty and you look fabulous!!! You are too hard on yourself!!
Brighten up and focus on the positive, you've gained but you're doing something about it before you gain anymore...you should be proud of that!
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| Posted 1/25/07 8:37 AM |
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MrsKelly
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Re: Bad day today...
Posted by Mrs. Patticakes
Posted by beautyq115
Posted by Mrs. Patticakes
Don't listen to anyone, I'm sure you looked beautiful!
NO I really didn't Just say "no you look fine" I take everything to heart...especially about my weight...ALWAYS HAVE ALWAYS WILL
Wow it's as if I wrote that..You sound just like me I'm so sorry. I have always based so much on my weight and it does take it's toll after a while...I've seen pics of you in your album and from LIW and I think you are beautiful. Please feel better.
definitely. don't be so hard on yourself, kathleen - i know that's easier said than done but try not to - you're a gorgeous girl!
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