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Help--I need your suggestions!

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bean
I love my little man!!!!

Member since 7/05

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Name:
Janine

Help--I need your suggestions!

Ok, my friend is getting married in Aruba and I just got her invitation. We can't go because I can't get the time off from work and because of our little one on the way-we are trying to save our money any way we can.

So, my question is what should I give her? She came to my wedding and gave $250.00. I was thinking $150.00 is that too cheap?

Posted 9/20/05 1:59 PM
 
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HereWeGoAgain
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Member since 7/05

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Name:
a

Re: Help--I need your suggestions!

Quite honestly, I gave what I got for everyone wedding... I did not attend my cousins wedding, they gave me $200 at mine, I sent a card and $200 back! Good Luck!

Posted 9/20/05 2:03 PM
 

AnnBrunoXO
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Member since 5/05

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Name:
MaMMa

Re: Help--I need your suggestions!

I would give them the same amount that they gave you.

I always do, regardless of whether I can go to their party or not.

Posted 9/20/05 2:11 PM
 

Jenziba
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Member since 5/05

6265 total posts

Name:
Jennifer

Re: Help--I need your suggestions!

I have to agree with the other girls...I'd give the same amount as what they gave me.

Posted 9/20/05 2:29 PM
 

steph4777
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Name:
Stephanie

Re: Help--I need your suggestions!

I don't agree with the whole give what they gave me. If you are not in a financial position to do so, then give what you can. If this person is a true friend then they will understand that you are saving up for a baby.

Posted 9/20/05 2:53 PM
 

tiki03
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Re: Help--I need your suggestions!

I agree with Steph. You should give whatever you feel comfortable with.

Message edited 9/20/2005 3:09:15 PM.

Posted 9/20/05 3:08 PM
 

monkeybride
My Everything

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Re: Help--I need your suggestions!

If you can afford to give what they gave you then I would do that especially because you won't be spending any money to travel to the wedding.
If it's out of your budget though then give what you can afford.

Posted 9/20/05 5:15 PM
 

MrsJ
I love my Katie Bug

Member since 5/05

11357 total posts

Name:
Kathy

Re: Help--I need your suggestions!

I would give the same they gave you, especially since you arent even attending their wedding.

Posted 9/20/05 5:16 PM
 

MrsM
LIF Toddler

Member since 5/05

421 total posts

Name:
Amy

Re: Help--I need your suggestions!

I have never been in that situation, but what about sending them a gift that falls between the $150 and $250? Sometimes you can find something really nice on their rgsitry...

Just a thought.

Posted 9/20/05 5:45 PM
 
 

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