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smdl
I love Gary too..on a plate!
Member since 5/06 32461 total posts
Name: me
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1 year today
My FIL passed 1 year ago today.
DH took the day off. I did not remember him telling me so I asked him why he did. He was very evasive and finally after me being irritated that he was not answering, He told me it was the anniversary of his death. I guess I should have guessed. I am also very forgetful with the baby and everything. Sometimes I don't even know what day it is. DH never takes days-off to pay the bills and go grocery shopping. Really! BUT he never told me that he took off for that reason.
How can I approach this?
What is the thing to do or say in such sad day?
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Posted 8/29/07 9:43 AM |
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nylisa
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Name: MaMa
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Re: 1 year today
You just need to be there for him today.
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Posted 8/29/07 10:05 AM |
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Chrisnamy
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Name: Amy
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Re: 1 year today
Let him do what ever he wants to do! He will let you know if he wants to talk.
if you do get him talking....you can always telling a nice story about something that you loved about his Dad. and that you miss his Dad very much also.
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Posted 8/29/07 10:11 AM |
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anjerandunder
Positive thoughts worked!!!
Member since 6/06 1909 total posts
Name: J
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Re: 1 year today
just give him some space.
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Posted 8/29/07 11:45 AM |
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when
Maybe this time?
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Re: 1 year today
Just be there for him.
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Posted 8/30/07 11:51 PM |
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