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RJzWife
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Member since 10/07

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Kristen

I Give Up.

Well, here is my background:

My cycles are irregular. My last AF was in September. On November 10 we BD and then from the 14 or 15 until about the 18 of November I had spotting.. Very light and not even enough to get on my underwear or a maxi pad. I got excited.. thought I could have been pregnant because that would have been good timing for implantation spotting. So various websites I checked out told me I could test on November 25, so I did and I got BFN. I also tested today, November 26 and another BFN. So I am pretty sure I am not pregnant. Now I am deciding to give up trying for now. If it is meant to happen it will happen. Good luck to you all, I hope your stay on this board is a short one. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/26/07 10:35 PM
 
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Domino
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Re: I Give Up.

Chat Icon dont give up!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/26/07 11:05 PM
 

CityNYGirl
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Betty

Re: I Give Up.

If your last cycle was September then I would say there is something wrong....If you just came off the pill then that might be the problem...you might not be ovulating....Sometimes it takes 2-4 months for your body to regulate again after the pill and start ovulating on its own....

I wouldn't give up I would go to the doctor and get simple testing done (you can begin by blood work) no invasive procedures....your hormone levels might tell you a lot ....I would also check your thyroid as thyroid can make mess up your cycle.....

GL & don't give up!!

Message edited 11/26/2007 11:28:36 PM.

Posted 11/26/07 11:27 PM
 

hope2bamom
LIF Infant

Member since 11/07

213 total posts

Name:
Violet

Re: I Give Up.

Don't give up! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/26/07 11:41 PM
 

sfp0701
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Member since 1/07

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Name:
Tricia

Re: I Give Up.

No giving up allowed. Isn't this your 2nd month trying.. No no no.. No giving up. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/27/07 7:31 AM
 

twinkletoes807
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Member since 11/07

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Name:
Gabi

Re: I Give Up.

I know a crazy cycle makes you want to pull your hair out, but don't give up for crying out loud!! Now is the time to step up your game a bit. Like the OP suggested, go to the gyno and get some bloodwork!! Get an OPK...something!! Just don't give up!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/27/07 7:34 AM
 

BunnyBaby
Loving Motherhood!!!

Member since 11/07

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Name:
Audrina

Re: I Give Up.

Please dont give up. Forget about trying to determine when you O.

Just BD every other friggen single day until you get your next Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/27/07 8:53 AM
 

mooshyboo
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Christine

Re: I Give Up.

don't give up Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/27/07 9:14 AM
 

DRMom
Two in Blue

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Name:
Melissa

Re: I Give Up.

I agree with the other posters. Go to your Dr and ask for CD 3 testing at least. Also a 2 hr fasting glucose tolerance test. This will test you for PCOS and a couple of other things. It is basic blood testing.

PSA: IT is NOT normal not to get your period for months at a time. See your DR!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/27/07 9:18 AM
 

MrsRbk
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Michelle

Re: I Give Up.

Posted by MrsGreek

If your last cycle was September then I would say there is something wrong....If you just came off the pill then that might be the problem...you might not be ovulating....Sometimes it takes 2-4 months for your body to regulate again after the pill and start ovulating on its own....

I wouldn't give up I would go to the doctor and get simple testing done (you can begin by blood work) no invasive procedures....your hormone levels might tell you a lot ....I would also check your thyroid as thyroid can make mess up your cycle.....

GL & don't give up!!



I agree 100% with this

Posted 11/27/07 9:32 AM
 

maybeamommy
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Member since 10/07

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Re: I Give Up.

definitely don't give up! If your cycles are so irregular, you might be miscalcuating your ovulation date.

Posted 11/27/07 10:25 AM
 

SupportACop
Momma's Boy & Lovin' it!!

Member since 5/06

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Name:
C

Re: I Give Up.

I would defiinitly see a Dr. since your last period was in Sept.
I was on the "I give up" I'm done. I was planning a trip to Italy I was like I am out and can't handle this anymore and I got my BFP..I hope the same for you. Don't lose hope and keep trying but definitly keep BDing...Best of Luck!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/27/07 5:11 PM
 

SupportACop
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C

Re: I Give Up.

I know this is an old post but GOOD LUCK THIS MONTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/23/07 5:24 PM
 

Kelly-n-Ant
LIF Infant

Member since 10/07

52 total posts

Name:
Kelly

Re: I Give Up.

I feel the same way you do every month AF decides to visit (not welcomed). The only thing I can say is please don't give up! It is a difficult time TTC, but the outcome is well worth it. Here is some Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon for everyone.

Posted 12/23/07 7:36 PM
 

MrsRivera
2 under 2...whew!!

Member since 2/07

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Name:
Beth

Re: I Give Up.

Posted by melijane

I agree with the other posters. Go to your Dr and ask for CD 3 testing at least. Also a 2 hr fasting glucose tolerance test. This will test you for PCOS and a couple of other things. It is basic blood testing.

PSA: IT is NOT normal not to get your period for months at a time. See your DR!Chat Icon Chat Icon



I completely agree with this. Sounds much like me when I was coming off of BCP. I was diagnosed with PCOS and told that I am anovulatory.

Better to be proactive than to find out later--you may not have it, but definitely have some tests done to rule it out.

Posted 12/23/07 11:54 PM
 
 
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