i knw i am sensitive b/c i just had a DNc but this is whast so wrong with twh worlkd sometimes...

well i went to get my nails done take a break form sitting here thinkig about everyting and what better way than ot pamper myself ...

so anyway this woman walks in maybe in her late forties very well dresed and is on the cell phone. She sits down to get her naiusl done so of course i hear the whole conversation.

She says my older daugher called to tell me im gonna be a grandma .. Then she goes on to say that teh daughert doesnt work and taht this may be what she needs to grow up and that she thinks it will be the best thing that could have happend to her. She said that the daughters boyfriend is 20 no job not in school and that the daughter is goign to apply for welfare rather than look for a job..

OK this is what upsets WHY WHY WHY can these people who dont wnat kids, who are having them hoping they will make them grow up and meanwhile people like me and plenty of ladioes on her have all these problems OK vent over.....

Re: i knw i am sensitive b/c i just had a DNc but this is whast so wrong with twh worlkd sometimes...

Hang in there I agree with you 100% your time will come!! Try to relax!! That is the key!!

Denise

Re: i knw i am sensitive b/c i just had a DNc but this is whast so wrong with twh worlkd sometimes...

I'm sorry about your D&C, and believe me I know these situations just s u c k!!


I was so helpless on Saturday - there was a beautiful baby but dirty, in dirty clothes, in a dilapitated stroller and the teenage father was smoking while pushing the stroller. I wanted to cry...

Re: i knw i am sensitive b/c i just had a DNc but this is whast so wrong with twh worlkd sometimes...

God I dont blame you for being upset. This is how welfare breeds more welfare...and it's NOT fair.

Message edited 11/9/2005 12:52:20 PM.

Re: i knw i am sensitive b/c i just had a DNc but this is whast so wrong with twh worlkd sometimes...

Sorry you are feeling so down!!! You are right though the ones who are no where near ready for this experience get it and the ones who want it so badly have a hard time!! Sending you some

Re: i knw i am sensitive b/c i just had a DNc but this is whast so wrong with twh worlkd sometimes...

Re: i knw i am sensitive b/c i just had a DNc but this is whast so wrong with twh worlkd sometimes...

So sorry for your loss....

But, as they say - the most important job of being a parent and you don't need a degree, license or age requirement to become one!!!

Message edited 11/9/2005 3:16:43 PM.

Re: i knw i am sensitive b/c i just had a DNc but this is whast so wrong with twh worlkd sometimes...

I am so sorry

I don't blame you for being ****** off though.. things like that drive me insane.

Re: i knw i am sensitive b/c i just had a DNc but this is whast so wrong with twh worlkd sometimes...

I'm sorry you're upset. I agree with that other post...welfare breeding welfare...so true.

I guess we just have to remember that everything happens for a reason...

Re: i knw i am sensitive b/c i just had a DNc but this is whast so wrong with twh worlkd sometimes...

I know I hear you. I have students at my high school who get PG, and they think it is no big deal.
It ticks me off

Re: i knw i am sensitive b/c i just had a DNc but this is whast so wrong with twh worlkd sometimes...

I often wonder th same things. or these woman who take their childrens lives its crazy i think why dose God give these people children in the first place, and there are plenty of people who could care for children and cant have them

Re: i knw i am sensitive b/c i just had a DNc but this is whast so wrong with twh worlkd sometimes...

I know what you mean! It *****!