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dm24angel
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another cycle down

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This is starting to be more then I know how to handle. Chat Icon

I dont even know what to say to the RE next visit. I feel like they wont have the time to dicuss with me in detail anything, and I dont even know what approach I want to take. Its only been 3 months of IUI....so I know I should give it more time, but Im just scared. The thought Of IVF freaks me out because we cant afford it at all, and we have no coverage, but I dont know when to stop the IUI's?

I guess I just have no patience. I know I should increase the femara and then move on to injectables, but I wish I could be more agressive NOW and I feel like none of my dr's, my OB, my RE, they dont listen. And when you try to speak up, they dismiss you. Why do Dr's do that???

anyway, looks like IUI #4 after Thanksgiving...

Posted 11/13/05 12:04 PM
 
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Sharon
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Re: another cycle down

So sorry Donna. . Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 11/13/2005 12:16:37 PM.

Posted 11/13/05 12:16 PM
 

butterfly23
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Re: another cycle down

I am so sorry. You must feel so frustrated. Good Luck Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/13/05 12:19 PM
 

leighla
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Re: another cycle down

I'm so sorry Donna. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I know this is getting frustrating, but you CAN handle it. You will get through this and get your sticky BFP!! Stay strong!

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Posted 11/13/05 12:28 PM
 

LisaW
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Did I ever tell you that I hate people?

Re: another cycle down

I'm so sorry Chat Icon

Posted 11/13/05 12:42 PM
 

redstar
Delay is not denial

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Michelle

Re: another cycle down

Donna, I am so sorry. I think you will be very happy with the 5mg of femara...you will hopefully produce multiple follies and may not need to move on to injectibles.

Perhaps switching RE clinics, to get another perspective and more personalization may be the trick.

Once again I am very sorry about AF :( I hope this is the last of her !

Posted 11/13/05 1:19 PM
 

rose825
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Re: another cycle down

Donna,

I am so sorry TBAF showed up again. YOu have been through so much in your life, you will get through this too.

But I agree if this was any other doctor and I felt they were not listening to me.... I would change doctors. I am about to do this myself, and I am just hoping that it is not like this everywhere.

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Posted 11/13/05 3:37 PM
 

Susan
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Re: another cycle down

Sorry Donna. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/13/05 4:18 PM
 

Diane
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Re: another cycle down

Im so sorry...I know it is a rollercoaster.
If you dont feel comforatbel with the doctors, then try someone else.
I LOVE my RE, he called me and left his cell phone # when he found out I had the m/c, and told him to call him anytime.
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Posted 11/13/05 4:43 PM
 

kat813
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Kathleen

Re: another cycle down

Sorry Donna. I hope this rollercoaster ride ends soon for you. Hang in there and don't give up. It might not be a bad idea about getting another opinion.

Posted 11/13/05 7:05 PM
 

DebG
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The cure IS worse!

Re: another cycle down

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I am so sorry that this was not the month.
You know I am here for you if you ever need to talk.

Posted 11/13/05 7:13 PM
 

boosh1002
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Re: another cycle down

Donna I am so sorry to hear this. Never give up hope, it will happen for you!!!!

Posted 11/13/05 9:44 PM
 

Donna
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Re: another cycle down

Donna I'm sorry Chat Icon Chat Icon

I hope this next one is the one

Posted 11/14/05 8:18 AM
 

Bran-loves-Tom
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Re: another cycle down

So sorry!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I hope next month will end the roller coaster for you!!!

Posted 11/14/05 8:57 AM
 

casey31
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Posted 11/14/05 10:59 AM
 

MrsJ
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Re: another cycle down

Damn Donna, I'm so sorry TBAF showed again for you. I know we already talked but just wanted to led a little support on the board. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that you get very merry Xmas gift!

Posted 11/14/05 2:37 PM
 

FeliciaDP

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Re: another cycle down

Dammit Donna .. sending you more hugs Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/14/05 3:23 PM
 

dm24angel
Happiness

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Donna

Re: another cycle down

I love you guys thank you!

I couldnt even talk to anyone today at work. I was so miserable, I just sat there, and yet it helped. Im ok now, and moving on.

Trying to focus on other things in life to improve , work on to take my mind off what I CANT control.

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Posted 11/14/05 7:55 PM
 

DebG
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The cure IS worse!

Re: another cycle down

We love you Donna!
OOh yes we do!
We don't love anyone as much as you!

I am glad you are feeling a tad bit better!

Posted 11/14/05 7:58 PM
 

dm24angel
Happiness

Member since 5/05

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Donna

Re: another cycle down

Posted by DebG

We love you Donna!
OOh yes we do!
We don't love anyone as much as you!

I am glad you are feeling a tad bit better!



your too funny DEB...and you know I appreciate your friendship and listening to me like only someone with IF could, and EVERYONES caring thoughts are what get me through each month, and each failed insemination...

Im feeling hopeful still, I am focusing a lot of things in my life I can change and control and it feels great!

THANKS TO ALL OF YOU!

Posted 11/16/05 6:36 PM
 
 

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