OMG, my very good friend just went through the same exact experience in December. I am so sorry! I can not imagine the pain that you must be feeling right now. My thoughts and prayers are with you and DH.
My very good friend lost her baby at 20 weeks a few weeks ago. She also delivered a baby boy..She is catholic also, and buried him. I want to give you hugs Take all the time you need to grieve..don't let people rush your feelings..