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TaraHutch
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Tara
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Non-baby making BD
Question....
Do you 'reserve' BD for your fertile days?
Meaning, let's say you're about 2 days or so before you have to start the marathon....do you conserve energy and abstain?
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Posted 9/23/08 7:51 PM  |
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maybeamommy
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Re: Non-baby making BD
Yes!
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| Posted 9/23/08 7:58 PM |
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inbliss
I'm a mommy to a 2 year old!!!
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Andrea
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Re: Non-baby making BD
we don't do anything for a few days before
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| Posted 9/23/08 8:03 PM |
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TaraHutch
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Tara
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Re: Non-baby making BD
anyone have guilt about this?
poor DH, I think he wants some.
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| Posted 9/23/08 8:09 PM |
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amfm714
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Re: Non-baby making BD
We're so tired from all of the marathons that I think we both look forward to not doing it! We definitely have to build up our energy again. 
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| Posted 9/23/08 9:59 PM |
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Angel321
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Re: Non-baby making BD
we bd any time honestly... if you wait for only THE TIME...it gets a little 'boring' and 'work like'... FOR ME.. THIS IS MY OWN PERSONAL OPINION...
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| Posted 9/23/08 10:36 PM |
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GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!
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Genna
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Re: Non-baby making BD
yep!
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| Posted 9/24/08 5:49 AM |
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Re: Non-baby making BD
This was the first attempt! I hope there is some non-making BD going on. I put so much pressure on my poor DH!
I owe him some just for fun!
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| Posted 9/24/08 7:25 AM |
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jam11308
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Re: Non-baby making BD
Posted by davenjess
we bd any time honestly... if you wait for only THE TIME...it gets a little 'boring' and 'work like'... FOR ME.. THIS IS MY OWN PERSONAL OPINION...
Same here...ITA with Jess. We keep it spontaneous so that it doesn't start to feel like work for us.
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| Posted 9/24/08 7:39 AM |
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sleepie76
enjoying every minute
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Re: Non-baby making BD
nope.
we go about business as usual and just make an extra effort on those 3 days.
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| Posted 9/24/08 9:26 AM |
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zoe282
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Jen
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Re: Non-baby making BD
I've read some things that say that its better to conserve for the fertile days b/c the sperm is more potent....I guess in regular terms the more you BD the more the sperm is diluted???
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| Posted 9/24/08 10:37 AM |
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BlueDiamonds
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Re: Non-baby making BD
unfortunately, this winds up happening with us and not b/c we want to. we just get tired from BDing so much during the fertile times and we do hold off for a few days before i am going to O.
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| Posted 9/24/08 11:21 AM |
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MetsGirl07
LIF O2 Vendor
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Deanna
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Re: Non-baby making BD
YUP... it just happens.. and i want to wait for him to be filled up ..
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| Posted 9/24/08 11:23 AM |
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Angel321
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Re: Non-baby making BD
Posted by zoe282
I've read some things that say that its better to conserve for the fertile days b/c the sperm is more potent....I guess in regular terms the more you BD the more the sperm is diluted???
i haven't read that at all. as long as there is no 'issue' on his part - the sperm is fine.
I can tell you from experience - even before TTC'ing...Dave could go, EVERY single day and not have any issues at all.
ETA: prepare for MEGA overshare....but if we don't BD the day before i give his member, oral attention, what comes out is WAYYYYYYYYYY too much to handle...so i know he's more than fine.
Message edited 9/24/2008 11:29:52 AM.
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| Posted 9/24/08 11:28 AM |
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Mamacita2Be
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Re: Non-baby making BD
Posted by davenjess
Posted by zoe282
I've read some things that say that its better to conserve for the fertile days b/c the sperm is more potent....I guess in regular terms the more you BD the more the sperm is diluted???
i haven't read that at all. as long as there is no 'issue' on his part - the sperm is fine.
I can tell you from experience - even before TTC'ing...Dave could go, EVERY single day and not have any issues at all.
ETA: prepare for MEGA overshare....but if we don't BD the day before i give his member, oral attention, what comes out is WAYYYYYYYYYY too much to handle...so i know he's more than fine.
This is good to know..
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| Posted 9/24/08 11:46 AM |
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