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1stimemom
Love my boys
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Mrs Dee
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Here we go again...**UPDATED 2x**
Ok so I was speaking to DH today going over he guest list for DS baptism and I mentioned how SS probably wouldn't attend. He says, "oh, yes he will." I asked him to please not press the issue and not to try and "force" a relationship. DH said he isn't that SS has been asking about the baby and is just embarrassed because of his poor behavior so far. I, of course, agreed that he should be. DH wants to set up a night to get us all together and "work this thing out" I expressed to DH that SS behavior towards me is completely unacceptable and unwarranted and he agreed. I don't know when this GTG is supposed to happen, but I will keep you all posted. Wish me some type of luck that it won't be a disaster and/or only last for a few days
**UPDATE**
Ok, well he finally got his lazy butt over here last night. (of course during my favorite TV show ) He managed to at least say "hello" to me this time. He was much nicer and even held the baby. Anthony actually loved him. He was looking at SS and kept grabbing his fingers He stayed @ 1 1/2 hrs. I guess it is a start if he keeps it up... Oh he even managed to say "goodbye" to me too! We didn't discuss anything or get any "issues" worked out, but maybe this is a good first step 
UPDATE #2
OK so DH just called ~ SS wants to come over again tonight ~ I guess the baby isn't so bad after all, hmmm? 
Message edited 10/21/2008 6:04:10 PM.
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Posted 10/9/08 4:27 PM  |
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Bops
My 3 wishes
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Re: Here we go again...
Good Luck  !If nothing else, at least you will have all your thoughts on the table and maybe it will make you feel better - this way you know that you've exhausted all of your options
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| Posted 10/9/08 4:56 PM |
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legallyblonde
LIF Adolescent
Member since 8/08 850 total posts
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K
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Re: Here we go again...
Good luck!!!
This is good! Maybe SS is coming around Keep us posted
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| Posted 10/10/08 8:33 AM |
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KarenG2003
My BIG man and my little man!
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Karen
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Re: Here we go again...
Good luck to you!
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| Posted 10/10/08 9:11 PM |
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cantbelieveit
Love these kids!
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Tammy
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Re: Here we go again...
Wishing you luck! let us know.
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| Posted 10/12/08 5:26 PM |
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ThePinkGoose
In Your Hands
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Nunya
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Re: Here we go again...
Everything going ok?
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| Posted 10/15/08 8:16 AM |
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1stimemom
Love my boys
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Mrs Dee
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Re: Here we go again...**UPDATED**
updated
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| Posted 10/21/08 3:56 PM |
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legallyblonde
LIF Adolescent
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K
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Re: Here we go again...**UPDATED**
Hey, that sounds like a good start! Baby steps. As hard as it is, you just have to be patient. I'm glad he's coming around.
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| Posted 10/21/08 4:28 PM |
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1stimemom
Love my boys
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Mrs Dee
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Re: Here we go again...**UPDATED 2x**
Posted by legallyblonde
Hey, that sounds like a good start! Baby steps. As hard as it is, you just have to be patient. I'm glad he's coming around.
I know, at least it made DH happy ~ that is what is all about, isn't it
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| Posted 10/21/08 6:04 PM |
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Bops
My 3 wishes
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Re: Here we go again...**UPDATED 2x**
Great update ! It sounds like a good start 
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| Posted 10/21/08 8:10 PM |
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NinaLemon
It's a boy!!!
Member since 10/07 6453 total posts
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Jeannine
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Re: Here we go again...**UPDATED 2x**
That's awesome!! Sounds like all he needed was a little time
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| Posted 10/22/08 9:07 AM |
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sunnyplus3
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Re: Here we go again...**UPDATED 2x**
kudos to you for giving SS a chance!!!
Blending families is so hard & your SS should be mature enough to know better.
I'm glad SS & your baby are getting to know each other
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| Posted 10/22/08 9:08 AM |
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Lucky2008
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Chris
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Re: Here we go again...**UPDATED 2x**
baby steps in the right direction.
I am sure everything will work itself out.
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| Posted 10/22/08 10:59 AM |
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hbugal
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Re: Here we go again...**UPDATED 2x**
Glad to hear that things are working out...
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| Posted 10/22/08 2:41 PM |
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KarenG2003
My BIG man and my little man!
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Karen
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Re: Here we go again...**UPDATED 2x**
So glad things are going better for you and your family!
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| Posted 10/22/08 8:56 PM |
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