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Don't know what to do...

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boogie
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Don't know what to do...

I just had a miscarriage..it started the day before Thanksgiving and I just stopped bleeding yesterday. I was suppose to be 7 weeks pregnant but iI had an ultrasound on Wed at the ER which showed a gestational sac less than 5 weeks old. My beta numbers went from 216 to 323 to 0, which was done Monday.My regular physician still wants me to get an ultrasound done to make sure everything is out. I normally see a midwife and they don't think its necessary to have an ultrasound. the midwife thinks to go the least invasive route, since it would have to be an internal. I know ultimately its my decision whether or not to get one done or not. Not sure what to do...

Posted 12/3/08 10:38 AM
 

MrsMessina
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Re: Don't know what to do...

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon If your beta is 0 now, and you've bled, is there any reason that they think something would still be left in there?Chat Icon I'm sorry you're going thru this. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
Are you in any discomfort or anything thing- any sore areas, etc...?Chat Icon

Posted 12/3/08 10:58 AM
 

boogie
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Re: Don't know what to do...

Posted by MrsMessina

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon If your beta is 0 now, and you've bled, is there any reason that they think something would still be left in there?Chat Icon I'm sorry you're going thru this. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
Are you in any discomfort or anything thing- any sore areas, etc...?Chat Icon



thanks, I'm not in pain or anything....I think I'm not going to get it done. I will probably stick to the midwife's decision.

Message edited 12/3/2008 11:10:58 AM.

Posted 12/3/08 11:10 AM
 

sleepie76
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Re: Don't know what to do...

started the day before thanksgiving - that's awful. I'm so sorry.


Go with your gut instinct. Do what you feel is right.


I would probably get the ultrasound done just to make sure it's all clear so when I was ready to TTC again, I know we are good to go. But that's just me.

Posted 12/3/08 1:07 PM
 

CrankyPants
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Re: Don't know what to do...

I am so sorry you are going through this.

I will say that I do not find sonos invasive, and internal is pretty simple IMO. I had it done just to make sure there was nothing left and that I didn't need a DNC.

Posted 12/3/08 2:18 PM
 

MrsMessina
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Re: Don't know what to do...

Posted by sleepie76
I would probably get the ultrasound done just to make sure it's all clear so when I was ready to TTC again, I know we are good to go. But that's just me.



ITA. Chat Icon Over the past 4+ years I've had more internal sonos than I'd prefer to have in a lifetime, so they're no big deal to me.... but if there was any chance of seeing anything and I didn't want to know I woud tell them that before hand and just let them do what they need to- it takes less than a minute literally. Chat Icon

ETA: Not sure your reasoning for not wanting one but if it's b/c you think it will be uncomfortable I've never had any pain or discomfort from one if that helps at all. Chat Icon

Message edited 12/3/2008 2:43:10 PM.

Posted 12/3/08 2:42 PM
 

pisces36
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Re: Don't know what to do...

Posted by sleepie76

started the day before thanksgiving - that's awful. I'm so sorry.


Go with your gut instinct. Do what you feel is right.


I would probably get the ultrasound done just to make sure it's all clear so when I was ready to TTC again, I know we are good to go. But that's just me.



I agree.. I too miscarried and bled for a while. But, I think you should do what you feel is right... So sorry to hear of your loss. Many hugs to you! Chat Icon

Posted 12/3/08 7:54 PM
 
 

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