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shaye3
LIF Adolescent
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Laura
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update..here we go again..badnews
Hey ladies -
We are pregnant again and have had 3 rising betas..After 4 losses I am so terrified to get my hopes up but how can I not a little too right.....I refuse to take out any of my books or look online at babycenter or anything baby related till I hopefully make it to the 2nd trimester..but i am holding out hope..please please let this be the one....
I know you ladies understand these feelings..just needed to share..please send some sticky vibes my way!!
thanks for all the good thoughts ladies..unfortunately i got bad news yesterday..my beta dropped in half so it looks like another loss is inevitable.
I am just kind of numb right now..don't know what to think...
Message edited 12/13/2008 7:41:56 AM.
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sweetdreamz1181
Baby Girl on the way!
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Jackie
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Re: here we go again
congrats!!!!!!!!! and lots and lots of sticky dust for you 
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| Posted 12/11/08 10:18 AM |
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sleepie76
enjoying every minute
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Re: here we go again
congrats!!!
I hope this is it for you!
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| Posted 12/11/08 10:32 AM |
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Novem05
LIF Adolescent
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Re: here we go again
Congrats!
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| Posted 12/11/08 10:40 AM |
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lolipep
My prayers have been answered
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Re: here we go again
Congrats!!! stick dust for you
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| Posted 12/11/08 11:12 AM |
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IrishLasss334
I'll be there soon!
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Re: here we go again
sticky dust for you!  It's so hard. I have tried to prepare myself as well for the next BFP. I have promised myself I will try extremely hard not to stress myself out.
Try to enjoy it. You can't change whatever will or won't happen. I don't know if you pray or if you are religious, but my Aunt sent me this: "When God takes something from your grasp, He's not punishing you, but merely opening your hands to receive something better. The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you". I concentrate on this ever time I get stressed and it helps.
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| Posted 12/11/08 11:25 AM |
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shaye3
LIF Adolescent
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Laura
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Re: here we go again
Posted by IrishLass
sticky dust for you! It's so hard. I have tried to prepare myself as well for the next BFP. I have promised myself I will try extremely hard not to stress myself out.
Try to enjoy it. You can't change whatever will or won't happen. I don't know if you pray or if you are religious, but my Aunt sent me this: "When God takes something from your grasp, He's not punishing you, but merely opening your hands to receive something better. The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you". I concentrate on this ever time I get stressed and it helps.
for you.
Thanks I will try to remeber that..like you said it is out of my control (besdies all the meds and infusions =)..last time i was obsessed with my betas and looking them up online this time i am trying not to do that..i can't change how it is rising too fast too slow etc so i will just go with it and hope for the best...
now the question is who to tell..last time we told our immeidate family right away..wanted the support and of course when we lost the baby at 11 weeks we were so devatsted we needed the support there too...but at the same time it is hard to make a big..woohooo annoiuncement when we are so causious
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| Posted 12/11/08 11:31 AM |
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IrishLasss334
I'll be there soon!
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Patty
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Re: here we go again
I've thought about who we may tell when it happens as well..I will tell the people I would tell anyway if I was having a problem, parents, siblings, my girls on the IF board..
But you have to be comfortable too. Take it one day at a time, maybe you only feel comfortable today with your Mom or your Dad. See how you feel tomorrow.
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| Posted 12/11/08 1:52 PM |
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Dani922
Here's to new beginnings
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Danielle
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Re: here we go again
Congrats! I know how you feel. I had a very hard time attaching to this pregnancy until I heard a heartbeat at 10 weeks. Try to enjoy it as best you can. Sticky vibes!
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| Posted 12/11/08 3:53 PM |
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jam11308
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Re: here we go again
I'm praying for you & sending you LOTS of {{{{{{{{{{{{{{sticky vibes}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
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| Posted 12/12/08 10:46 AM |
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jam11308
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Re: here we go again
Posted by IrishLass
my Aunt sent me this: "When God takes something from your grasp, He's not punishing you, but merely opening your hands to receive something better. The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you".
I'm not religious, but that is really, really beautiful & comforting - thanks for sharing
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| Posted 12/12/08 10:47 AM |
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conigs25
So in love with this kid!
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Re: here we go again
I wish you a happy and healthy 9 months
Best of luck to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(((( sticky dust))))
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| Posted 12/12/08 9:49 PM |
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sydniesmom
LIF Adolescent
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susan
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Re: here we go again
Congrats I HOPE THIS IS IT FOR YOU!!!
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| Posted 12/13/08 12:18 AM |
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Re: here we go again
Congrats and sending sticky dust
And a few prayers
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| Posted 12/13/08 4:12 AM |
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Re: update..here we go again..badnews
OMG-I am so sorry
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| Posted 12/13/08 10:06 AM |
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Re: update..here we go again..badnews
All I can say is that I truly believe G-D only gives us what we can handle. I also believe someday we will get the chance to know why but for now we have to struggle through the darkness and continue on. My heart goes out to you and I often wonder if and when we get pg how will I react and who will we tell. I say tell your closest family...people who can offer the support, unfortunately, it sounds like you may need. I have nothing to say you don't already know except..........You have people here who can offer virtual hugs and tears for you. I know it's not much but if you want my # you can fm me and we can talk any day or night. I wish you the very best, but am also praying for your strength.
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| Posted 12/13/08 10:16 AM |
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QueSeraSera
Sugar & Spice
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Re: update..here we go again..badnews
I am so very sorry.
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| Posted 12/13/08 11:13 AM |
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WNA01
my 2 boys
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Re: update..here we go again..badnews
i am soo sorry
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| Posted 12/13/08 11:56 AM |
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TTCMIA
LIF Adolescent
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Re: update..here we go again..badnews
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CAH127
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Re: update..here we go again..badnews
I am so sorry.
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| Posted 12/13/08 4:56 PM |
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CrankyPants
I'm cranky
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Re: update..here we go again..badnews
I am so sorry, this is devastating.
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| Posted 12/14/08 9:03 PM |
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lovemy2boys
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Re: update..here we go again..badnews
I'm so sorry
Message edited 12/14/2008 10:18:07 PM.
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Novem05
LIF Adolescent
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Re: update..here we go again..badnews
I'm so sorry!
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| Posted 12/14/08 10:32 PM |
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sweetdreamz1181
Baby Girl on the way!
Member since 1/08 2186 total posts
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Jackie
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Re: update..here we go again..badnews
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lolipep
My prayers have been answered
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Lori
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Re: update..here we go again..badnews
I am truly sorry
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