My husband and I just lost our beautiful son Robby at 35 weeks. on 11-1-08. He was 4lbs 7oz and absolutely adorable.The autopsy has no result so we are contributing it to an "accident". Each day is getting harder and harder. i just sit up all night and cry. My cousin at 36 weeks just now also lost her baby and delivered her this morning. I dont understand why this could happen to our family again. i am horrified.
i was an avid LIW girl and felt i could turn to you all for support
OMG I am so sorry !! as a mother myself I couldnt imagine what your going through !! I had a m/c at 6 wks but for me thats not even comparable !! And for your cousin to have to go through this also Are you going to seek counseling? Maybe it would help a little or maybe there is somewhere you can go where others have been through this ?
My heart and prayers go to you and your family and I hope in time your heart heals
I know how hard it is and only time can make it better...As I said in another post, it will get easier to deal with. There are still rough days, but the good outweighs the bad. All you can do is get through each day right now and hope for the best...one day you will find yourself smiling and/or laughing at something and you will know in your heart that you are healing.
I am so terribly sorry to you and your entire family. This is cruel and unfair and I am so sorry it happened to you and your cousin. May you find the strength to get through this and find peace.
