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newday21608
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Two under Two...
I didn't notice one but is there a thread, or board for Two under Two moms? If not here, does anyone of one somewhere else? We just found out we are pregnant again and I have a mixed bag of feelings..
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Porrruss
Nya nya nya
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Re: Two under Two...
Congratulations! There's plenty us over on Parenting- some who planned it, some who didn't. ALL went through the same anxieties I think.
I'm new to it- my second is almost 3 months, my older is 19 months (17 month age difference). It was hairy at first, but just tonight I was thinking- "Whew..... it's definitely getting easier..."
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| Posted 1/31/09 9:05 PM |
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MsMBV
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Re: Two under Two...
Congrats! Mine will be 21 months apart. I am scared out of my mind (but excited too!)
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| Posted 1/31/09 9:21 PM |
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LoveBeingMrsT
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Re: Two under Two...
i just barely make the 2 under 2 group. my ds's will be 23 months apart....but i'm terrified!...and excited!
congrats!
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| Posted 1/31/09 10:51 PM |
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newday21608
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Re: Two under Two...
Thank u ladies for the encouragment and the congrats.. I am def happy.. but I'm also a little nervous.. My oldest and my baby are 8 yrs apart.. now I will have two that are 14 months apart.. I just can't imagine.. My mom watches the baby now.. because I work but what happens next year? When there are two? I can't leave her with a 14 mth old and a new born... We can afford daycare but do we want to put the 1yr old in day care? so many thoughts, so many thoughts..
hubby is happy about it but seems oblivious to any issues that may arise..i'm seriously worried about having another c-sec so soon.. what if i'm not totally healed on the inside? they stitched my uterus back up right? what if the growing baby pops the stitches and ruptures my uterus? *i'm so uninformed about these things...* google is my best friend these days..
I will peek in on the parenting page..
Message edited 1/31/2009 11:43:37 PM.
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| Posted 1/31/09 11:42 PM |
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Porrruss
Nya nya nya
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Re: Two under Two...
Posted by newday21608
I will peek in on the parenting page..
Why peek? Jump right in. I promise you will get lots of support. I credit that board with keeping me sane and calm through the past 3 months.
Honestly- no need to worry right now about childcare- you have a year or so before you'll need to deal with it anyway. You'll be FINE.
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| Posted 2/1/09 7:51 AM |
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MsMBV
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Re: Two under Two...
Posted by newday21608
i'm seriously worried about having another c-sec so soon.. what if i'm not totally healed on the inside? they stitched my uterus back up right? what if the growing baby pops the stitches and ruptures my uterus? *i'm so uninformed about these things...* google is my best friend these days..
2 things:
One - stay off google....it can do more harm than good
Two - I can totally relate to the fear of having a baby so soon after a c-section. I had the same fears...what if there is a leak,.....what if I grow too much....what if what if what if. Not only did the Dr confirm that it was totally fine to have a baby so soon after my first c-section, but it looks like if I go into labor before my baby reaches 8 lbs she is going to let me try to go VBAC.
The risk for rupture is not that much greater for a 2nd c. I think it was 2% higher or something.
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| Posted 2/1/09 9:50 AM |
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