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First love

Who was yours?

My first love was my high school boyfriend. He was my first kiss, first date, first... everything. We were together (on and off) from the time I was 15 to almost 19. I guess it was technically "puppy love" b/c we were so young. But it was important b/c I always felt it helped make me who I am. If I had a different experience as a teenager, I might not have found my way to DH.

Message edited 4/23/2009 9:37:03 AM.

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i responded over there..but i'll copy & paste..
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i was 14 & fell for a much older boy He was 19 at the time...swept me off my feet..i was smitten. It then turned into an almost 3year saga! Broke my heart over & over again..He would constantly tell me he loved me, but then go back to the same g/f over & over..Everytime things would settle & i'd say "finally i have him now! he's mine forever!" I'd find out he was back with "her"..(but of course i'd never find out from him...always from another source which was the reason for the heartache because i would think WE were together!)..then anytime i'd say "i'm moving on" and get a boyfriend, he would come crawlin' & cryin' - i'd break up w/who i was with, and then the same story all over again.. needless to say he CONTINUOUSLY broke my heart! almost 3years from when it began - i finally said enough was enough. I had had it and made the decision within myself that i was DONE. My friends & i had a celebration party & tacked his picture on one of those inflatable punching bags that would pop back up after u punched it we beat the sh*t out of it so bad that we broke it & it no longer popped up! he did try me again after that - but i was SO over it all..never went back to him again.. ANYWAYS, the following two years i dated.. had one serious relationship in the midst - and then met DH it was only then that i knew what REAL love was..what a REAL relationship & a future was about.. although i always say "my first love was this jerk so & so" -that other guy was definetly puppy love..i was young & was "in love" with an older boy..and whenever i think back to the situation & where that other guy is now - i thank GOD that i never ended up with him! It definetly taught me everything about what i really wanted & what i absolutely did NOT want! and i never put up w/b.s. again..so THAT i'm thankful for.. (and wouldn't u know he ended up w/that same old girl he always went back too & they're miserable ) ..now when i think back - what on EARTH was a 20 year old in college doing with a little 14year old girl??!!! and more so..how did his 20year old g/f think it was normal?!! (whenever i say that my family always says "YEA...we TRIED to tell u that!" ) i never "gave it up" so it definetly wasn't that! lol.. no wonder my brothers hated him whenever he's brought up my big bro's are always like "yea..we STILL wanna hunt him down & kick his a** just because we never did"

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7th grade

i loooooooved this boy - we made out and i loooooooved him hahahahaha totally puppy love but that was the first time i remember really liking someone so mucht that it hurt

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DH - we met when we were 14 started dating when we were 15

my first CRUSH is DH's best friend right now but they didnt know each other then, wierd.

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i will also say...

i had it BAD for Leonardo DiCaprio! i truly believed i would end up with him someday! My room was COVERED in him...i had notebooks, scrapbooks, "leo boxes" lol..it was truly a SICK obsession. i loved him from back in the day when he started in Growing pains..by the time he got to Titanic..fuhgettaboutit! i used to cry because my older brothers told me i was crazed like every other teenage girl & was living in pipedream

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Posted by MrsG123

i will also say...

i had it BAD for Leonardo DiCaprio! i truly believed i would end up with him someday! My room was COVERED in him...i had notebooks, scrapbooks, "leo boxes" lol..it was truly a SICK obsession. i loved him from back in the day when he started in Growing pains..by the time he got to Titanic..fuhgettaboutit! i used to cry because my older brothers told me i was crazed like every other teenage girl & was living in pipedream

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DH was my first love.

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In 1st grade I had a big time crush which I thought was love on Chris Gavigan! We just recently reconnected on FB!!

My first "love" was my HS boyfriend Eddie. We dated for junior-senior year and broke up our 1st year of college.

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My first puppy love - a HS boyfriend. I was 14, he was 16. I nursed him through a broken leg - as soon as he was healed he dumped me. I was heartbroken.

My first real love - a college boyfriend.

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Posted by MrsG123

i will also say...

i had it BAD for Leonardo DiCaprio! i truly believed i would end up with him someday! My room was COVERED in him...i had notebooks, scrapbooks, "leo boxes" lol..it was truly a SICK obsession. i loved him from back in the day when he started in Growing pains..by the time he got to Titanic..fuhgettaboutit! i used to cry because my older brothers told me i was crazed like every other teenage girl & was living in pipedream

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I hate a bf in high school for almost 2yrs but her turned out to be such a psychopath that i dont even count him lol....right after I graduated high school I started going out with who I consider my first real love..he went to my hs but was a year older and i didnt know him in hs but met him at a graduation party (he was one of my brothers friends) he was actually a really great guy and we were on and off for a really long time but long distance eventually broke us a part (i was away at college)

Message edited 4/23/2009 9:33:00 PM.

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My H.S. boyfriend was my first love. He was 2 years older than me. We went to different schools (I was at an all girls school in Brooklyn and he went to an all boys school in Manhattan). We were head over heels for each other. THEN he went away to college in the Bronx (yeah, lived in Manhattan and dormed in the Bronx, I didn't understand it either....) and he cheated on me for a month. When I found out, he DENIED we were dating to the other girl and made me out to be a loon ex. I was so miserable for months. I talk to him every now and again so we are on okay terms. I had to forgive him in order to move on.