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Anyone else feeling freaked out by the murder-suicide in GC?

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Christine2
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Anyone else feeling freaked out by the murder-suicide in GC?

I don't know... it feels a little too close to home. It is unfathomable, but I can't help myself from wanting to know more. How can a man do this to his family?

Posted 4/23/09 11:42 PM
 

Ayne11
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Re: Anyone else feeling freaked out by the murder-suicide in GC?

I was just telling DH about this today. I just keep thinking about his daughter who saw him strangle her mother then come after her.

THEN the older daughter comes to the room and saw her mother and sister dead and knowing she didn't have a chance.

Just breaks my heart!

Also, did he have this whole thing planned hence the family visit down to MD to the eldest daughter??

Message edited 4/24/2009 7:56:17 AM.

Posted 4/24/09 12:01 AM
 

kimbalina
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Re: Anyone else feeling freaked out by the murder-suicide in GC?

It is awful!! I can't believe what I am reading and seeing these days. I feel like people EVERYWHERE are just snapping! Chat Icon

Posted 4/24/09 8:33 AM
 

Jillyb97
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Re: Anyone else feeling freaked out by the murder-suicide in GC?

Posted by kimbalina

It is awful!! I can't believe what I am reading and seeing these days. I feel like people EVERYWHERE are just snapping! Chat Icon



I couldn't agree more...there is just sad news all of the time...

Message edited 4/24/2009 9:27:38 AM.

Posted 4/24/09 9:26 AM
 

Tulips915
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Re: Anyone else feeling freaked out by the murder-suicide in GC?

Take your own life. Leave your family alone!!

Posted 4/24/09 9:29 AM
 

Finally1108
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Re: Anyone else feeling freaked out by the murder-suicide in GC?

Posted by SB7308

Take your own life. Leave your family alone!!



That is what i told DH last night!

I feel so bad for the whole extended family....to know that that was they all died....so sad. How could he do that to his family?! and they say how he was such a "family man"

Posted 4/24/09 10:02 AM
 

Tulips915
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Re: Anyone else feeling freaked out by the murder-suicide in GC?

Posted by Finally1108

Posted by SB7308

Take your own life. Leave your family alone!!



That is what i told DH last night!

I feel so bad for the whole extended family....to know that that was they all died....so sad. How could he do that to his family?! and they say how he was such a "family man"


I just cant think how this "man" could kill his wife and his daughters! Just so sad that people do this.. And it was all because of $$ (his fault really).
Great family man he was Chat Icon

Posted 4/24/09 10:13 AM
 

MockingJay
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Re: Anyone else feeling freaked out by the murder-suicide in GC?

Am I the only person that thinks he was set up???? Idk if I'm just being naive but someone owes that much $$$ to people, you have some crazy SOBs coming after you! Something like that could EASILY be faked!

Ihonestly don't know...I just find it amazing that no one fought back!

Posted 4/24/09 10:47 AM
 

MrsG123
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Re: Anyone else feeling freaked out by the murder-suicide in GC?

Posted by Belongs2DanBuckley

Am I the only person that thinks he was set up???? Idk if I'm just being naive but someone owes that much $$$ to people, you have some crazy SOBs coming after you! Something like that could EASILY be faked!

Ihonestly don't know...I just find it amazing that no one fought back!



very true...hmmm - interesting..?????

Posted 4/24/09 10:50 AM
 

Tulips915
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Re: Anyone else feeling freaked out by the murder-suicide in GC?

Posted by MrsG123

Posted by Belongs2DanBuckley

Am I the only person that thinks he was set up???? Idk if I'm just being naive but someone owes that much $$$ to people, you have some crazy SOBs coming after you! Something like that could EASILY be faked!

Ihonestly don't know...I just find it amazing that no one fought back!



very true...hmmm - interesting..?????

hmmmmm didnt think of that..

Posted 4/24/09 10:53 AM
 

MockingJay
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Re: Anyone else feeling freaked out by the murder-suicide in GC?

I know...and maybe its me who knows...but it just seems waaaaaaay too out there to believe.

HOW do you let your father/husband beat your mother or children. I would have done SOMETHING to defend myself!!! And how the FFFFFFF did no one else HEAR this fighting???!!! It had to have been loud enough to alert SOMEONE!!!

Seriously...think about it. He couldn't possibly beat or strangle more than one person at a time. There was 3 of them!!!

Like I said...it just dosen't add up to me

Posted 4/24/09 11:14 AM
 

maymama
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Re: Anyone else feeling freaked out by the murder-suicide in GC?

yes Chat Icon leave this poor family alone and let these people RIP ... like the cover of newsday today, the older daughter with all her friends from Loyola Chat Icon leave them alone to grieve and begin their healing Chat Icon I know how I was after my dad passed and the last thing I would want was to be reminded at every turn I make, tv, magazines, newspapers etc.



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Posted 4/24/09 11:43 AM
 

Nifheim
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Re: Anyone else feeling freaked out by the murder-suicide in GC?

personally i feel bad for the family members.

I knew a few people growing up that were living in a hotel (went to h/s with them) their parents snapped after they lost their job or their income was slashed. All of the parents were high income/high stress jobs and went from living in Manhassat to living in a motel in Lindy/Copaugie (sp) none of them killed anyone but just snapped and became insane. I had to help this friends out all the time because the were basically taking care of their parents now.

I think this trend will be more common (not killing but snapping) because people are used to bringing in 300K+ money and now they get bumped down to the real world of maybe making 100K and less. I am really interested in if it was a murder suicide or someone came after them. I will wait for facts though - its kinda a hard call.

Posted 4/24/09 11:54 AM
 

kimNanthony
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Re: Anyone else feeling freaked out by the murder-suicide in GC?

I feel so sorry for this family and think about it all of the time. I drive past their house everyday for work and the past couple of days there have been hundreds of people on the lawn and in the street.

Also, yesterday when I drove past there was a locksmith in the driveway.

I agree this just does not add up to me. I know the father was an attorney with money problems but I dont think killing your entire family would be a solution. Something just is too strange about this entire case.

Also, when I saw a picture of the dad he looks skinny and I dont understand how with three of them they couldn't stop any of this???

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Posted 4/24/09 12:16 PM
 

GoldenRod
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Re: Anyone else feeling freaked out by the murder-suicide in GC?

Posted by Belongs2DanBuckley

I know...and maybe its me who knows...but it just seems waaaaaaay too out there to believe.

HOW do you let your father/husband beat your mother or children. I would have done SOMETHING to defend myself!!! And how the FFFFFFF did no one else HEAR this fighting???!!! It had to have been loud enough to alert SOMEONE!!!

Seriously...think about it. He couldn't possibly beat or strangle more than one person at a time. There was 3 of them!!!

Like I said...it just dosen't add up to me



He killed his wife first, and the 11 yo was in the room. The 19yo didn't come back to the room until her mom and sister were dead. He also appeared to knock them unconscious first.

Unfortunately, from what I've read, it does seem very plausible.....
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Posted 4/24/09 1:03 PM
 

mcd01
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Re: Anyone else feeling freaked out by the murder-suicide in GC?

Chat Icon it is so sad Chat Icon

Posted 4/24/09 2:25 PM
 
 

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