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order of protection fraud?????

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RonniesMommy
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order of protection fraud?????

ok, someone I know has an order of protection on her husband, but she was still living with him. she has children with him and he was not supposed to see the kids until they were 18. well they were both arrested this morning.. does anyone know what is going to happen? I know they both have warrants also. I have their kids because the police were going to take them.

Posted 5/3/09 1:38 PM
 
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Re: order of protection fraud?????

It depends - what exactly were they arrested for?

Posted 5/3/09 3:27 PM
 

RonniesMommy
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Re: order of protection fraud?????

They were arrested because she put an order of protection on him months ago and he is still living in the house. They wouldnt let the police in so they had to break down the doors. I think they still have warrants out for their arrests from years ao.

Posted 5/3/09 3:35 PM
 

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Re: order of protection fraud?????

I would assume the next step would be their arrainment and bail will be set...tomorrow morning I guess

If they can post bail- they would get out...if not they stay in jail awaiting trial or a plea

Posted 5/3/09 3:56 PM
 

RonniesMommy
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Re: order of protection fraud?????

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I would assume the next step would be their arrainment and bail will be set...tomorrow morning I guess

If they can post bail- they would get out...if not they stay in jail awaiting trial or a plea



Is there any way they can do jail time for this?

Posted 5/3/09 4:01 PM
 

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No clue...a lot is going to depend on what the outstanding warrents are for....

Posted 5/3/09 4:21 PM
 

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No clue...a lot is going to depend on what the outstanding warrents are for....



exactly - if the warrants were for, say, traffic things - she could probably pay the fines and be released.

eta - were the police there because of the warrants?
I'm just asking because you said they wouldn't let them in - so i am guessing she wasn't trying to enforce the order of protection.

Message edited 5/3/2009 6:16:13 PM.

Posted 5/3/09 6:14 PM
 

Wendy1220
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Re: order of protection fraud?????

She wasn't arrested because he was in the house, more than likely she was arrested because of the old warrant. Basically, and I'm not saying it's okay but he was ordered by the court to stay away from that house. Regardless of whether or not she was allowing him to remain there, he is in violation of a court order.

Can't say if there will be jail time or not. I am interested though, is this in Nassau or Suffolk and do you know who called 911 to begin with?

Posted 5/3/09 7:45 PM
 

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Re: order of protection fraud?????

Sorry, but I don't get this. Why did she get an order of protection and then let him continue to live in the same house? He must have posed a threat at some point, no? I mean no offense, but this annoys me as someone who once had an order of protection, had it violated repeatedly, and had no police action when the violations were reported. But I digress.

Anyway, back to your original question. I can see why they arrested him, but I don't see why they arrested her. If she choose not to contact the police or ask him to leave the house, that's really her business. It sounds as if something else is going on, though what, I am not sure from the information.

Posted 5/3/09 8:53 PM
 

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Re: order of protection fraud?????

Posted by RonniesMommy

ok, someone I know has an order of protection on her husband, but she was still living with him. she has children with him and he was not supposed to see the kids until they were 18. well they were both arrested this morning.. does anyone know what is going to happen? I know they both have warrants also. I have their kids because the police were going to take them.



There are a bunch of things that dont' necessarily add up. I've never seen an order (of any kind) that flat out prohibits contact between parent and child until the child reaches age 18.

Second, it is totally possible to have an OP and still live together. Not all OPs are the stay away variety, some are just refrain from. But a refrain from doesn't make sense if there is some kind of order prohibiting contact with the kids.

Third - old warrants?? What kind?? Bench warrant for failure to appear, warrant for not paying child support, warrant for a criminal charge?? And why do both parties have warrants??

Cops & kids . . . it's nice that you took them in, but if their parents are going to be incarcerated for any length of time it might be more than you bargained for.

I would call the precinct and ask when & where the arraignment will be and show up and find out what is going on.

Posted 5/3/09 9:45 PM
 

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Posted 5/3/09 10:52 PM
 

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Re: order of protection fraud?????

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Second, it is totally possible to have an OP and still live together. Not all OPs are the stay away variety, some are just refrain from. But a refrain from doesn't make sense if there is some kind of order prohibiting contact with the kids.




No, it's not totally impossible. It's impossible for the object of the order of protection to be legally permitted to live with the victim, but it's certainly not impossible for the victim to get an OP and then decide to live with the object of the OP again. In cases of domestic abuse, for example, this happens ALL the time.



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Posted 5/3/09 11:41 PM
 

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Re: order of protection fraud?????

Also, are you sure it is your friend who has an order of protection on her husband? I have seen cases where a law guardian (basically, the child's lawyer) gets an order protection against a parent, but the other parent allows them in the house.

In the cases I've seen, the child was removed from the home and put in foster care.

Posted 5/4/09 9:00 AM
 

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Second, it is totally possible to have an OP and still live together. Not all OPs are the stay away variety, some are just refrain from. But a refrain from doesn't make sense if there is some kind of order prohibiting contact with the kids.




No, it's not totally impossible. It's impossible for the object of the order of protection to be legally permitted to live with the victim, but it's certainly not impossible for the victim to get an OP and then decide to live with the object of the OP again. In cases of domestic abuse, for example, this happens ALL the time.



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Posted 5/4/09 9:01 AM
 

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Posted 5/4/09 9:01 AM
 

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Re: order of protection fraud?????

There are 2 types of orders of protections - limited and full. Limited orders allow people to have contact/live together. It is limited in that it orders a person not to harass/hit/push the person that has the order. sounds bizarre b/c you shouldn't do that, but that is the limited. full orders demand that the person stay away from the other individual - no phone calls, letters, any contact whatsoever. If a person who has the order invites the person who she has the order against over her house, she will not be arrested - never heard any da's office going forward with a case. I don't even know if there is a charge. On the other hand, if that person who the order is against goes to the person's house, even though invited, he can get arrested b/c it is a court order he is violating - criminal contempt in the second degree - A misdemeanor - punishable up to 1 year jail. If they have warrants, that is a whole separate issue. Who knows what the warrants are for - a judge can remand them depending on what the warrant is for.

Posted 5/4/09 10:30 AM
 
 

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