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Jackie24
~We Did it~
Member since 7/06 6718 total posts
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Jackie
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Sometimes I feel guilty.....can anyone relate?
So being married two years, and all the questions that come along with it from people . I feel as if I am always talking about HOW much I don't want a child right now .
My question is in the back of my head I am thinking if I accidently was to get pregnant and how guilty I would feel talking and thinking this way. Can anyone relate to this?
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Posted 5/4/09 9:50 PM  |
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GioiaMia
Let's Go Rangers!
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Re: Sometimes I feel guilty.....can anyone relate?
every day 
which is why i always tell people that if i do accidentally get pregnant they have to pretend i never said all of this stuff and pretend i wanted a baby all along. . .
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| Posted 5/5/09 7:03 AM |
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puppylove
LIF Adolescent
Member since 10/05 561 total posts
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Summer
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Re: Sometimes I feel guilty.....can anyone relate?
You shouldn't feel guilty at all. This is how you feel right now and you're entitled to your own opinion. Life is always changing. When I was younger I was the one who said I never wanted to get married. Now that I am, I could never imagine my life any other way and everyone who listened to my reasons why I didn't want to get married have never made me feel guilty for having changed my mind. Peoples minds change and just because you said something one day doesn't mean that's how you have to feel the rest of your life.
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| Posted 5/5/09 11:27 AM |
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Jackie24
~We Did it~
Member since 7/06 6718 total posts
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Jackie
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Re: Sometimes I feel guilty.....can anyone relate?
Thanks ladies,
I had a bit of a scare this week! I was feeling like a hypocrite, well I am not preggo but you can't control mother nature!
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| Posted 5/5/09 9:26 PM |
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squeekietoy
LIF Zygote
Member since 8/08 45 total posts
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Danielle
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Re: Sometimes I feel guilty.....can anyone relate?
I'm only married 4 months and people are constantly asking me when I'm going to have a baby. It might be due to my advancing age, but, I digress.
I know how you feel. I ALWAYS talk about how I don't want a baby. I feel like if it happens for us, it's going to be accidental and then people are going to think that I'm a hypocrite.
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| Posted 5/5/09 10:51 PM |
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MrsM-6-7-08
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Member since 8/06 4249 total posts
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Nicole
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Re: Sometimes I feel guilty.....can anyone relate?
every month i am scared of a slip, and embarrassed to think what a hypocrite i would look like, you are not alone
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| Posted 5/6/09 9:25 AM |
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anonttcer
BOOOO for fall!
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Meaning a NON ttcer!
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Re: Sometimes I feel guilty.....can anyone relate?
Totally feel the same way.
But then I think- well people have to realize that not all pregnancys are planned and that if I WERE to get pregnant I wouldn't be a hyprocrite. Things just happen sometimes!
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| Posted 5/7/09 9:51 AM |
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kimbalina
Bring on the glitter and bows!
Member since 6/08 15158 total posts
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Kim
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Re: Sometimes I feel guilty.....can anyone relate?
I understand completely!!! It is always going to be in the back of your head!
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| Posted 5/11/09 9:37 AM |
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