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POASAddict
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i hope...
that AF gets here on time (tomorrow) so i can start a new cycle. i testing this morning, 10DPO, and BFN, plus i am cramping front and back now so i know AF is on her way.
i already have one gorgeous DC, and this was only our second cycle TTC for #2, so why am i so upset?
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mikeswife06
Drama Momma
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Re: i hope...
Because you want another happy, healthy, gorgeous DC! Don't worry, you know it's gonna happen soon 
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| Posted 6/22/09 11:06 AM |
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yeah-yeah
LIF Infant
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Re: i hope...
I felt this way after the 1st, 2nd and 3rd cycle and BFN. Last month was the 4th (but I didn't *try try*) and this will be the 5th (o'ing now I believe) and I am TOTALLY cool now.
Are you a control freak? Because I was those months and then I realized A) The whole thing is totally NOT in my control no matter what I do and B) I am SOOOO not a control freak in my "real life." I was totally going against my nature and REALLY stressing myself out.
So, I threw out the OPKs the past two months, think "whatever happens happens," and realize I wouldn't mind having the whole summer to go away, have fun and DRINK without worry! I'm loving life right now.
Now, talk to me in September and I probably will have just come back from CVS with OPKs, Robitussin, B6 and a jumbo supply of HPTs. 
Forgot these...
Message edited 6/22/2009 11:49:10 AM.
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| Posted 6/22/09 11:44 AM |
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BayB614
LIF Adolescent
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Re: i hope...
maybe you are upset because it seems like everybody and their mother got a BFP these past couple of days. I know that's part of why I'm upset right now! Although I am happy for everyone, its hard to see SO MANY people getting pregnant and then it just doesn't happen for yourself, even though you know you did everything right this month.  And of course if I could have picked any month of the year for my BFP, it would have been this one... my due date would have been 2 days after my bday
Sorry for venting here...
Just know that you are definitely not alone in this!!  And it will happen, but like pp said, it's just not really in our control as to when exactly it will happen.. and I think it is normal to feel upset or discouraged when it doesn't.
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| Posted 6/22/09 12:26 PM |
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Ever-After
Goals w/o plans r just wishes
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Re: i hope...
definitely agree with PP. It's upsetting not only because you WANT this child, but also because of the multiple pregnancies going on right now. lol. There seems to have been so many in the month of June that it kinda bums you out when you're not one of them 
Hang in there. It'll happen!!!
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| Posted 6/22/09 1:26 PM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
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Re: i hope...
No AF means you still have a chance! i certainly had cramping front and back before my BFP!!! Good luck!!!
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| Posted 6/22/09 1:54 PM |
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POASAddict
LIF Infant
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Re: i hope...
Posted by zoe282
No AF means you still have a chance! i certainly had cramping front and back before my BFP!!! Good luck!!!
sure, get my hopes up 
thanks everyone. i felt dumb even posting this, i am glad i am not alone!
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| Posted 6/22/09 2:28 PM |
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Re: i hope...
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Posted by zoe282
No AF means you still have a chance! i certainly had cramping front and back before my BFP!!! Good luck!!!
sure, get my hopes up
thanks everyone. i felt dumb even posting this, i am glad i am not alone!
Dont feel dumb that is why we are all here. We all have these thoughts weather its out 1st month or 12 month. 
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| Posted 6/22/09 2:59 PM |
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Re: i hope...
I know how you feel
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| Posted 6/22/09 8:48 PM |
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