I will be joinging you ladies

We finally got the unfortunate news today that there was just no chance for this pregnancy. I am still pretty upset about everything. At the same time I am just so relieved to not have to stress anymore.

The doctors said they were very unsure for the past 3 weeks and things were not measuring right, then they finally saw the heart beat and were told things may work out. Then got another phone call that they reallized the heart beat was way to low. Then went back today and heard the final bads news. I think I knew everything was not going to turn out well but this 3 1/2 weeks of being so unsure and hearing mixed things from the doctors was terrible.

I have been reading all of your posts the past month. I am lucky to have you all to share this with and the incredible support you offer on this board.

I am sorry for everyone of you!!! I hope we all get BFP soon and go on to have a Healthy Pregnancy.


I am taking the Misoprotosal tomorrow morning. I am hoping it will not be that painful. Has anyone used this and what was your experience?

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Rachel, I am so, so sorry you're going through this

I didn't take meds, so I'm no help there. I think Jen may have though, so she may be able to give you some guidance. The girls here are so helpful and supportive. FM me if you need to talk

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i am so sorry for your loss.. all the ladies here are so wonderful with support.. its so hard dealing with this.. if you ever need to talk, i am here!

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Welcome, although I am so sorry that you are here.

I hope you find this place to be supportive, and I think you will.

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Hi Rachel...Im so, so sorry you are going through this

Maybe you read about me. I went through a similar situation. For 2 weeks I basically stressed and worried because at my 7w ultrasound they told me the HB was very slow and it didnt look good. It was confirmed a week later then a week after that I had a D&C

I never thought I would open up so much online or meet so many wonderful women but I have. I am so thankful for this site and the friends that I have made. We are all here for support and believe me, it helps

Im always around if you need/want to talk

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Hi I'm so sorry for what you're going through. I never took the meds, so can't help there. But I just had a D&C a week ago. Fm if you need to talk

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I am so sorry for you loss....

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I'm so sorry for your loss!

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Hi Rachel. I'm so sorry you have to go through this.

I took the drugs for a miscarriage this past winter. I would have been almost 10 weeks at that point, but it was a blighted ovum and the baby never really developed too much...so the situation is a bit different than yours. I had also started bleeding and cramping prior to taking the pills.

I was really scared because, of course, I read the internet and other people's horror stories. Bad idea! The worst of it was actually before I took the medication and at that it was just pretty bad period cramps. I took the first round (which I believe was 4 pills) as a suppository. When I went back to the doctor two days later, I took another round orally. My doctor did have to clean me out internally in the office . But when everything was said and done, I was fine and a month later I got my period back and have been well since. I wish the same for you...

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I'm so so sorry. I sent you an FM. I am so sorry you had to go through this. If you need to talk about anything please let me know. I did take the meds so if you want to know anything let me know.

Again I am so sorry.

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I'm so sorry.

I've been through this twice and know how awful it is. I know what you mean about almost being relieved to get some kind of closure- it's such an emotional rollercoaster going back to the doctor every week.

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Thank you every one for all your kind words! It is so great to have everyone on this board that has experienced the same thing.

I feel like the worst is behind me, now that I have gone through the medicine. Now we will just take it one day at a time.

Thank you for all your help!

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I'm sorry for your loss. It's a horrible rollercoaster ride of emotions.

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Im so sorry for your loss. I had the same problem and now its been 1 year after my loss and im trying again.