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springchick
make a wish
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justask
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People are annoying me more than ever... sorry vent
Ok so we just been married less than a year and people are already pushing the kids. We know we want kids but we dont want them right now. We have some friends that are trying to get pregnant and I am excited for them and I cant wait to buy the baby stuff and spoiled the kid lol.. I share this with them and they keep saying that I am like that because I want a kid and what are we waiting bla bla bla. One of the situation is that we are not financially ready, we have no savings and we living paycheck to paycheck. Well they keep saying that you are never ready, and that other people do it with less than us, but for me I dont want to bring a kid to this world in this situation, I want to be able to provide the best to my kid.. Well in a certain way they are saying that I am wrong... RRRgghhh sorry for making no sense but people should mind their own business, if they want kid worry about that not about mine..
Message edited 9/28/2009 9:27:06 PM.
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Posted 9/26/09 1:22 PM  |
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MrsKelly
just hangin' around...
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Krista
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Re: People are annoying me more than ever... sorry vent
it definitely can get frustrating. all i can say is that there is no right and wrong... it's what YOU feel comfortable with. whether you live paycheck to paycheck or have a ton of savings, there's always needs for that money - when you feel financially ready, you will know it. then and only then, will the timing be right for YOU. people don't realize how they come off sometimes. just try to take it with a grain of salt 
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| Posted 9/27/09 2:32 PM |
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Jackie24
~We Did it~
Member since 7/06 6718 total posts
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Jackie
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Re: People are annoying me more than ever... sorry vent
I feel your pain, don't expect people to stop, just come up with really witty come backs.
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| Posted 9/27/09 10:15 PM |
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anonttcer
BOOOO for fall!
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Re: People are annoying me more than ever... sorry vent
OK you know what?
It is NONE OF THEIR BUSINESS.
You shouldn't even have to offer explanations like you aren't financially ready, etc etc.
I really don't understand why other people care so much about what others do.
Why does it affect them so?
Does it really affect their live THAT much if you have kids today, tomorrow, 5 years from now, or never?
People never cease to amaze me. Their OBSESSION with other people's utereuses, sperm, eggs, etc is truly disturbing.
I have gotten to the point of giving VERY nasty answers back and I don't even feel bad anymore. Why should I feel bad when they obviously don't feel bad asking such a personal, prying question all the time......
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| Posted 9/28/09 1:04 PM |
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springchick
make a wish
Member since 5/08 3566 total posts
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justask
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Re: People are annoying me more than ever... sorry vent
thanks ladies, I knew you could would understand.. I need to find smart/mean comments to respond back to this people lol
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| Posted 9/28/09 9:28 PM |
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anonttcer
BOOOO for fall!
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Re: People are annoying me more than ever... sorry vent
Posted by springchick
thanks ladies, I knew you could would understand.. I need to find smart/mean comments to respond back to this people lol
There is a website with some.
I have to find it.
Some of the come backs were HILARIOUS!
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| Posted 9/29/09 12:42 PM |
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