Ok this is werid. I know we've discussed feeling guilty about not providing grandchildren for our parents, but my childless guilt has taken a new form.

I have a very good friend, who REALLY wants to get married & have children. She has known that her wholw live. She is 33 & hasn't met thw right guy yet.

And when she gets depressed about it, I feel like I am wasting my opportunity.

I did find the person I wanted to be with at 23 but we didn't marry untill we were 28 & we haven't decide about children.

I know my having or not having children won't really affect my friend, but sometiems I wonder if she thinks I am squandering my 30s & my successful marriage by not taking advantage of the opportunity.

ok, I'm nuts, I know!
Just wondering if any one else is as equally nuts.