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zoe282
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Got AF...I'm out
I was really really bummed....I actually tested this morning...and right After AF showed...what a slap in the face! That stupid Bit$h mocked me!
I am really really sad right now. I know it's only been 2 months trying...but I am really nervous about my sister getting married and after this next month DH and I have to wait! (at least 1 month) so tha I am not due on or around her wedding....I really thought this month was it. It happenend so easy the first time!
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Lisa982006
Mommy of 2! Ty God
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Re: Got AF...I'm out
Im so sorry Jen!!  I was just thinking about you too...Im so upset for you right now and mad 
Are you taking December off? Maybe a break will do some good? When is your sister getting married?
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| Posted 11/9/09 8:32 AM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
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Jen
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Re: Got AF...I'm out
Posted by Lisa982006
Im so sorry Jen!! I was just thinking about you too...Im so upset for you right now and mad
Are you taking December off? Maybe a break will do some good? When is your sister getting married?
Thanks Ya after this current month I will take December off...it really sucks that it has come to this. She deserves her special time. I just have to talk to her about it.
Maybe this month I'll temp as well as OPK's? do you do both??? I guess I should step up my efforts? Any recommendations???
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| Posted 11/9/09 8:49 AM |
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Newly1
I love my baby boy!
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Re: Got AF...I'm out
So sorry hun! I really thought this would be your month
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| Posted 11/9/09 8:49 AM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
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Jen
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Re: Got AF...I'm out
Posted by Newly1
So sorry hun! I really thought this would be your month
me too
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| Posted 11/9/09 8:51 AM |
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Lisa982006
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Re: Got AF...I'm out
Posted by zoe282
Posted by Lisa982006
Im so sorry Jen!! I was just thinking about you too...Im so upset for you right now and mad
Are you taking December off? Maybe a break will do some good? When is your sister getting married?
Thanks Ya after this current month I will take December off...it really sucks that it has come to this. She deserves her special time. I just have to talk to her about it.
Maybe this month I'll temp as well as OPK's? do you do both??? I guess I should step up my efforts? Any recommendations???
I really give you a lot of credit for putting your sisters wedding ahead of your baby plans. I know you are 100% right in saying she deserves her time but you do too. I think you should talk to her.
I never temp-ed; only used the OPK. Do you remember if you BD-ed the night before getting the smiley? Thats the only thing I can think of that might have made a difference if you didnt. I know Deannas plan says to BD every other day from CD 8 buts its a 50/50 chance that you will have an "on"night the night before the smiley. I actually didnt follow the plan entirely. CD8 started right before we left for the cruise so we bd-ed that night but then CD10 was the day before the cruise and we slept by my mothers so no bd-ing there then on the cruise we were so tired every night. Finally, one night (CD14) I said to DH, "look Im getting really upset because we havent been following the plan." So we bd-ed that night and sure enough the next morning--smiley. So we bd-ed that afternoon, that night and then the next 2 nights 
Maybe now that you have more of an idea of when you will O, you can up the bd-ing for next cycle. I would definitely use the OPK again though.
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| Posted 11/9/09 8:57 AM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
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Jen
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Re: Got AF...I'm out
Ya we actually did BD the night before i got the smiley. lol....We followed the plan exactly...but oh well I guess it just wasn't meant to be this month
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| Posted 11/9/09 9:25 AM |
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bride07
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Re: Got AF...I'm out
Jen
I'm sorry that the B**ch showed up. I hate AF.
AS for your sister's wedding...i think you are doing the right thing.
My advice though for nect cycle is maybe not use the opks, temping, etc.
This month I am just not doing anything. Just BD'ing every other day and when I see EWCM then 3 days in a row.
I know for me the testing just stresses me out more. Last month i was a nervous and emotional wreck every other day while using OPK, baby aspirin, and mucinex. This month i am trying to not focus so much on it and try to relax. Not that I am so good at relaxing....(trust me I still get anxious every other day) bang:  .
I'm sorry again!!
P.S I know many love the OPK's so it is what is best FOR YOU!
I think they say the biggest factor with getting pragnant is STRESS. That is why so many women who can;t have children then they ADOPT all of a sudden they can have children naturally. SO i think the best thing for us ALL is some how try to stay relaxed. Wether it is not using all the tests... or YOga.... gym whatever it may be.
THinking of you!
Message edited 11/9/2009 10:28:48 AM.
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| Posted 11/9/09 10:24 AM |
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Babyaholic
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Re: Got AF...I'm out
I am so sorry Jen! I was hoping this was your month. 
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| Posted 11/9/09 11:03 AM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
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Jen
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Re: Got AF...I'm out
Posted by bride07
Jen
I'm sorry that the B**ch showed up. I hate AF.
AS for your sister's wedding...i think you are doing the right thing.
My advice though for nect cycle is maybe not use the opks, temping, etc.
This month I am just not doing anything. Just BD'ing every other day and when I see EWCM then 3 days in a row.
I know for me the testing just stresses me out more. Last month i was a nervous and emotional wreck every other day while using OPK, baby aspirin, and mucinex. This month i am trying to not focus so much on it and try to relax. Not that I am so good at relaxing....(trust me I still get anxious every other day) bang: .
I'm sorry again!!
P.S I know many love the OPK's so it is what is best FOR YOU!
I think they say the biggest factor with getting pragnant is STRESS. That is why so many women who can;t have children then they ADOPT all of a sudden they can have children naturally. SO i think the best thing for us ALL is some how try to stay relaxed. Wether it is not using all the tests... or YOga.... gym whatever it may be.
THinking of you!
You know...I calmed myself down this morning after I wrote all this and I took a drive...I am just giong to do whatever this month. I am not going to track anything...i got pregnant the first month in May by doing nothing...it's in God's hands. I did everything in my power this month and it didn't work...so I'm just going to try to BD3 or 4 times a week like my doctor said and go from there...
As for my sisters wedding...the way my cycle worked after this month I'd be due at the end of Sept and her wedding is Oct 2nd...so I will skip December...we'll see about January since I guess I can be 9 months pregnant at her wedding but it's still not idea I wish it diddn't happen this way....
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| Posted 11/9/09 11:29 AM |
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Lisa982006
Mommy of 2! Ty God
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Re: Got AF...I'm out
Posted by bride07
I think they say the biggest factor with getting pragnant is STRESS. That is why so many women who can;t have children then they ADOPT all of a sudden they can have children naturally. SO i think the best thing for us ALL is some how try to stay relaxed. Wether it is not using all the tests... or YOga.... gym whatever it may be.
ITA with this!!! Thats a VERY interesting point about the women who adopt. I have to agree, after my experiences, that stress really DOES play a big part in this whole thing.
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| Posted 11/9/09 11:50 AM |
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kristin597
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Re: Got AF...I'm out
I'm sorry Jen. I know how you feel
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| Posted 11/9/09 12:07 PM |
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Re: Got AF...I'm out
Jen sorry to hear this. I had similar situation wil my SILs wedding.
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| Posted 11/9/09 12:40 PM |
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Wishing4ababy
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Re: Got AF...I'm out
I'm so sorry for you.
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| Posted 11/9/09 12:45 PM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
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Re: Got AF...I'm out
Posted by Lisa982006
Posted by bride07
I think they say the biggest factor with getting pragnant is STRESS. That is why so many women who can;t have children then they ADOPT all of a sudden they can have children naturally. SO i think the best thing for us ALL is some how try to stay relaxed. Wether it is not using all the tests... or YOga.... gym whatever it may be.
ITA with this!!! Thats a VERY interesting point about the women who adopt. I have to agree, after my experiences, that stress really DOES play a big part in this whole thing.
True! You were on a cruise when It happened for you!!!
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| Posted 11/9/09 1:16 PM |
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jerseychick
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Re: Got AF...I'm out
sorry Jen
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| Posted 11/9/09 4:53 PM |
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Siren77
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Re: Got AF...I'm out
I was thinking about you today. Wondering if you had tested and if you did what the results were! I couldn't get to a computer until now. I am so sorry. AF is such a B*tch.
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| Posted 11/9/09 7:25 PM |
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thiadora
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Re: Got AF...I'm out
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thiadora
Happy Little Girl
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Re: Got AF...I'm out
Posted by zoe282
Posted by Lisa982006
Posted by bride07
I think they say the biggest factor with getting pragnant is STRESS. That is why so many women who can;t have children then they ADOPT all of a sudden they can have children naturally. SO i think the best thing for us ALL is some how try to stay relaxed. Wether it is not using all the tests... or YOga.... gym whatever it may be.
ITA with this!!! Thats a VERY interesting point about the women who adopt. I have to agree, after my experiences, that stress really DOES play a big part in this whole thing.
True! You were on a cruise when It happened for you!!!
The month I got PG with my DS was the month I didn't think I could possibly get PG. We had timed everything "right" and I didn't get PG. My sister was getting married the following June and it was the last month that I wanted to try before taking a short break, we only BDed once. I thought there was no way that I was PG. (Basically, all 3 times I've gotten PG, I've only BDed once. For us that seems to be what works.) Well, the little 2.5 year old to the left was born May 1st 2007 
I also agree with the PPs that for some women, stress can prevent them from getting PG.
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| Posted 11/9/09 7:33 PM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
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Jen
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Re: Got AF...I'm out
Posted by thiadora
Posted by zoe282
Posted by Lisa982006
Posted by bride07
I think they say the biggest factor with getting pragnant is STRESS. That is why so many women who can;t have children then they ADOPT all of a sudden they can have children naturally. SO i think the best thing for us ALL is some how try to stay relaxed. Wether it is not using all the tests... or YOga.... gym whatever it may be.
ITA with this!!! Thats a VERY interesting point about the women who adopt. I have to agree, after my experiences, that stress really DOES play a big part in this whole thing.
True! You were on a cruise when It happened for you!!!
The month I got PG with my DS was the month I didn't think I could possibly get PG. We had timed everything "right" and I didn't get PG. My sister was getting married the following June and it was the last month that I wanted to try before taking a short break, we only BDed once. I thought there was no way that I was PG. (Basically, all 3 times I've gotten PG, I've only BDed once. For us that seems to be what works.) Well, the little 2.5 year old to the left was born May 1st 2007
I also agree with the PPs that for some women, stress can prevent them from getting PG.
I hope I can follow in your footsteps here!! This is our last month before a break!!! Fingers crossed!
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| Posted 11/9/09 8:19 PM |
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wanttobeamom
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Re: Got AF...I'm out
sorry to hear this. Damn AF always ruining our plans. See how you feel next month. I was on vacation the first time I got a BFP so I really think it has something to do with being relaxed.
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| Posted 11/9/09 8:38 PM |
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Ever-After
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Re: Got AF...I'm out
I'm sorry to hear that It really stinks. You are such a great person and you deserve to have everything you hope for. Are you still trying one more month before going on 'hiatus' for your sisters wedding? If so, I PRAY that you receive a blessing this next cycle.
Hang in there
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| Posted 11/9/09 8:39 PM |
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BabysMomma29
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Re: Got AF...I'm out
Posted by zoe282
I was really really bummed....I actually tested this morning...and right After AF showed...what a slap in the face! That stupid Bit$h mocked me!
I am really really sad right now. I know it's only been 2 months trying...but I am really nervous about my sister getting married and after this next month DH and I have to wait! (at least 1 month) so tha I am not due on or around her wedding....I really thought this month was it. It happenend so easy the first time!
I know you feel!! I got my lovely AF today too!! It was so easy the first time, wasn't it? I keep telling myself it wasn't meant to be and when it's meant to be it will happen, but it's so frustrating and so upsetting.
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| Posted 11/9/09 8:49 PM |
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ajaysmom
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Re: Got AF...I'm out
Sorry sweetie... i'm right there with you.. she didn't show up yet but 3 tests on 3 diff days say BFN.. so she's just F*****G with me, which makes it worse! Don't think about stopping and starting and trying and not trying... i think it makes it worse!! LOL... I do the same thing and am trying real hard to practice what i preach... It helps saying out loud! Makes you realize it's true!! HANG IN THERE!!
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| Posted 11/9/09 10:28 PM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
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Jen
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Re: Got AF...I'm out
Posted by Ever-After
I'm sorry to hear that It really stinks. You are such a great person and you deserve to have everything you hope for. Are you still trying one more month before going on 'hiatus' for your sisters wedding? If so, I PRAY that you receive a blessing this next cycle.
Hang in there
Yup! I have 1 more month to try before a hiatus...this will bring me to the end of August...and her weddin is Oct. 2nd...i hope this is it!
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