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It's over...ok, omg july baby was me...

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omgjulybaby
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It's over...ok, omg july baby was me...

had brown spotting earlier, freaked out and called doctor. went in for transvaginal sono. there is a sac, but no fetal pole. it just stopped developing. i will probably bleed it out, or i will have to have a d&c. i am heartbroken. i'm seven weeks. or, i was. it's called a blighted ovum. we are devastated....thank you for the well wishes.

It was me, Lana...aka Lanabean. There's not really much point in hiding. Our close friends know what happened. I don't really have any family/friends on here, so whatever. I would rather post my questions going fwd under my real name, not this one. We spent all night crying; this happened so fast. None of the classic signs of miscarriage, and I'm still not truly bleeding. I have to go today as awful as this is for HCG to be sure the numbers are now going down, a sono next week, and a d and c if I don't bleed everything out. Why is nature so cruel? thanks to all for the feedback; i haven't been on here in forever because i teach yoga full time, and my teaching schedule has basically kept me away from a desk setting. hopefully i can join you again in several months. But it's like, so what--even if your HCG numbers climb and your progesterone looks great--THIS can still happen? and in the back of my mind, I wonder, can there be some error?

Message edited 11/17/2009 6:54:20 AM.

Posted 11/16/09 3:44 PM
 
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neener1211
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J

Re: It's over

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I'm so sorry.

Posted 11/16/09 3:45 PM
 

Carolyn
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Twin mommy

Re: It's over

I'm so sorry for your loss Chat Icon

Posted 11/16/09 3:45 PM
 

katiebug
I'll love you for always

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Katie

Re: It's over

I am so sorry. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/16/09 3:46 PM
 

maybeamommy
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Re: It's over

I'm so sorry Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/16/09 3:47 PM
 

MamaB17
Back for baby #3

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N

Re: It's over

Chat Icon There is nothing I can say that is going to make you feel any better sweetie. I am so sorry for your lose. We are here for you if you need us. Chat Icon

Posted 11/16/09 3:48 PM
 

Lara&Aidansmommy
For mom i miss u ETC ILOVEU

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ETC I LOVE YOU

Re: It's over

oh noChat Icon Chat Icon I am so sorry...Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/16/09 3:49 PM
 

SuperLRN
Im a big boy now

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Re: It's over

Im sorry for your loss. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/16/09 3:50 PM
 

MrDeeNMe
whatcha doin!?

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Nikole

Re: It's over

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I'm so sorry...

Posted 11/16/09 3:50 PM
 

RandiG
Love my Boys!

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Randi

Re: It's over

I am so sorry Chat Icon

Posted 11/16/09 3:50 PM
 

StillInShock
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Re: It's over

I am truly sorry. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/16/09 3:52 PM
 

piggy007
Mommy of 2!!

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Re: It's over

oh how sad Chat Icon I'm so sorry!!! My heart goes out to you!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/16/09 3:52 PM
 

CookieMomster
Golden

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Me

Re: It's over

I am soooo sorry.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I can't even begin to imagine how you are feeling but if you need a shoulder please feel free.

Posted 11/16/09 3:52 PM
 

munchkinfacemama
LOVE

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Michelle

Re: It's over

I am so sorry Chat Icon

Posted 11/16/09 3:53 PM
 

conigs25
So in love with this kid!

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Michele

Re: It's over

I am so terrible sorryChat Icon

Posted 11/16/09 3:54 PM
 

Lisa982006
Mommy of 2! Ty God

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Lisa

Re: It's over

Im am so, so sorry for your loss Chat Icon

The same thing happened to me in July; baby stopped growing at 7w1d. I had a d&c.

If you have any questions or need to chat, please, please feel free to FM me.Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/16/09 3:56 PM
 

mtnmama

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Re: It's over

I am so sorry Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/16/09 3:59 PM
 

Momma2Be
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Dina

Re: It's over

Chat Icon Chat Icon I'm so very sorry for your loss.

Posted 11/16/09 3:59 PM
 

OrganicMama
So in love with my little man!

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Mama

Re: It's over

I am so sorry for your loss Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/16/09 4:00 PM
 

LoveyQ
Stalkers, get a life.

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Re: It's over

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Posted 11/16/09 4:01 PM
 

kristi2812
LIF Infant

Member since 10/09

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Kristi

Re: It's over

So sorry to hear that, i went through the same thing, i was told its common, just heartbreaking so sorry again.

Posted 11/16/09 4:22 PM
 

Deeluvsvinny
DONE

Member since 10/08

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Whatever

Re: It's over

I am so sorry for your loss. I wish there was something more I could say or do. We are here if you need to talk. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/16/09 4:24 PM
 

munchkinbugs
My little loves!

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Lisa

Re: It's over

I am so sorry for your loss. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/16/09 4:25 PM
 

Ladyinred
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Re: It's over

I am so sorry Chat Icon

Posted 11/16/09 4:25 PM
 

3monkies
Love my babies

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Sharon

Re: It's over

Im sorry for your loss Chat Icon

Posted 11/16/09 4:27 PM
 
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