Someone else is PG...

Just heard a guy at work's wife is PG and he didn't even want kids. All I ever hear him talk about is how kids are too much work, etc and now he's having one. And here I am going on month 5 of TTC and I currently have AF. Talk about stinging a little.

3 other people had babies a few months ago and TTC according to what they wanted to happen and BAM, they got exactly what they wanted. The exact month they wanted to have a baby, sex (I know that's iffy), etc. but you get the point. Everything just came so easy to them. I got PG right away with both of my kids, thankfully I got PG, but that was after what I had to do to make that happen. Surgery, medicine, etc. Sometimes it just doesn't seem fair.

There are so many women that want a baby soooooo badly and are going through so much to have just one, and then you have the other people who could care less and they get PG so easily! I don't get it!

Message edited 12/2/2009 3:52:21 PM.

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I feel your pain- last week my sil's cousin announced her pregnancy- she is 17

seems like its 100x easier to get pregnant when you are not trying!

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I totally hear what you are saying. I have been dealing with the low likelyhood of getting PG on my own for 18 months and have coworkers and family members getting PG left and right. Most of them not planning on it, or not in the most ideal situations. I have a 22 yr old coworker that walks around ******** about AF all the time and wanting to "take her ovaries out" b/c she doesnt care to have children EVER, yet knows my situation. Sometimes people can be so insensitive. Even those who know the pain you are going through cant seem to sympathize in an appropriate manner. Life just isnt fair.

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It seems like everyone around me is pregnant too.

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I feel your pain, most poeple i know got pregnant accidently while on BC. my newest friend got pg accidently and is aborting.. although she doesnt know i know bc she thinks i would be upset. im not, i get it but like you said it stings a little.

i dont get how poeple 'accidently' get pg and other more deserving poeple have so much trouble.

I guess everything happens for a reason right, it will happen for us in due time when its meant to be.

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december is month 8 for us . i cant even believe its been that long. i only O'ed once in that time period though so its not like i have had a real shot in the last 8 months...

my best friend has one accident. another friend has 1 planned and 2 accidents. a third friend recently also got pg by accident...i totally feel your pain!!

Message edited 12/3/2009 11:06:28 AM.

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I tell them all to breathe on me. Hopefully it's contagious

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Posted by TheDivineMrsM

I tell them all to breathe on me. Hopefully it's contagious

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We must work with the same guy. My coworkers' wife is PG w/#2. He's told people he never even wanted 1. What a jerk. Yes, life is so unfair. I'm in such a depression. Now with the holidays its going to be even harder.