Do yuo feel like the one who cries more gets more attention?

I worry that they might learn that crying gets them to be fed or held first. In the morning the one who is crying the loudest gets changed and brought down first since I am alone with them. Also when only one is home the one who cries gets fed first, since it is hard to feed one when the other is screaming.

It is not always the same one upset, but I wonder if we will be creating a monstor. I also worry that the content one gets left behind. KWIM.

Re: Do yuo feel like the one who cries more gets more attention?

Actually, I do feel that way. But luckily when one cries, the other one isn't usually fussy at the same time. (so far anyway!) Its hard, but I try to give them both lots of attention, if I'm holding one ususally I'm talking to the other one. Right now they haven't been napping at the same time either so I get that one on one time alot.