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bride07
Ava Rose you are an angel!!!
Member since 3/09 6115 total posts
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Needed Some Hugs and Advice
My post from Infertility Board. Wanted to hear what helps everyone get through your own experiences. Thank you for reading!
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MrsKS
Thank You St. Gerard.....
Member since 12/09 8306 total posts
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Kerri
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Re: Needed Some Hugs and Advice
aww my heart really goes out to you. I'm sooooo sorry.
i'm not at that point yet (the length of time trying). so i don't have any advice to give. Just some huggies for you.
Message edited 3/15/2010 8:50:17 PM.
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| Posted 3/15/10 8:50 PM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
Member since 8/08 3634 total posts
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Jen
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Re: Needed Some Hugs and Advice
oh no hun I am sooo sorry! staying positive is really difficult as you know. I have my moments, and have lots of high and lows.
I'll write you....
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| Posted 3/15/10 10:25 PM |
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jerseychick
LIF Adult
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Re: Needed Some Hugs and Advice
Aw Rachel, I'm so sorry I know it's hard to stay positive, but I'd say what I think you have said in the past...try picturing yourself with a baby in your arms at the end of all this struggle
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| Posted 3/15/10 11:05 PM |
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Siren77
LIF Adolescent
Member since 9/09 828 total posts
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Siren77
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Re: Needed Some Hugs and Advice
This is a crazy journey. This is why I'm so thankful for this board. We are in it together.
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| Posted 3/16/10 7:14 AM |
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autumn
Mommy to 2 divas
Member since 9/07 3389 total posts
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Lisa
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Re: Needed Some Hugs and Advice
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Maggie22
LIF Infant
Member since 10/09 111 total posts
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Re: Needed Some Hugs and Advice
awwwwwww....I totally now what you are going through. Its been almost 12 months for me and I too had 2 mc. Its so damn hard. I can totally relate. I wouldnt wish this upon my worst enemy. No one should have to go through this. I wish I had the words to help ease your pain but I dont  All I could say is that you are not alone. You are not alone.
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| Posted 3/16/10 6:41 PM |
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Maggie22
LIF Infant
Member since 10/09 111 total posts
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Re: Needed Some Hugs and Advice
cant spell today. AHHHH now = know  I'll blame it on the chemo LOL
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| Posted 3/16/10 6:42 PM |
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Babyaholic
Thankful
Member since 6/09 1459 total posts
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D
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Re: Needed Some Hugs and Advice
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BeachGal
LIF Adult
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J
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Re: Needed Some Hugs and Advice
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keepingsecrets
ridiculously blessed!!
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Exarina
My Two Girls
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Lisa Marie
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Re: Needed Some Hugs and Advice
I am so sorry
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| Posted 3/17/10 8:29 AM |
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Jax430
Hi!
Member since 5/05 18919 total posts
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Jackie
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Re: Needed Some Hugs and Advice
I'm sorry you're going through a rough patch. I think that we all have those.
I try to focus on all of the positives in my life - my family, my friends, all the fun times I have with DH that might not be as easily had if we had a child. I usually just try to live my life. It's easy during the first half of my cycle, when I'm waiting to O, and more difficult during the 2WW, and right after AF arrives. I guess the one positive about my long cycles is that it gives me 3 weeks between AF and Oing, so it gives me more time to relax between stressful times!
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
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Re: Needed Some Hugs and Advice
Posted by Jax430
I'm sorry you're going through a rough patch. I think that we all have those.
I try to focus on all of the positives in my life - my family, my friends, all the fun times I have with DH that might not be as easily had if we had a child. I usually just try to live my life. It's easy during the first half of my cycle, when I'm waiting to O, and more difficult during the 2WW, and right after AF arrives. I guess the one positive about my long cycles is that it gives me 3 weeks between AF and Oing, so it gives me more time to relax between stressful times!
I totally agree...I am really good at being positive in the first half. After AF comes I am somewhat relieved to just KNOW what is going on. The 2ww is such a killer...so I relax and enjoy...then O time comes and then even worse the 2ww...then positivity goes out the window. Stinks!
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| Posted 3/17/10 10:35 AM |
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Melzie635
LIF Zygote
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Re: Needed Some Hugs and Advice
For me talking about it really helped. I dont care who knows. Id rather them know what im going through instead of them asking when im going to be prego which makes me what to hurt someone. Plus you hear more and more stories on other women it has happen to
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| Posted 3/17/10 5:21 PM |
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elizabeth78
LIF Adolescent
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