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autumn
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one of those days today
well today I am having one of those days. I have been doing good and moving on from the m/c but today I was thinking how I would of been 18wks along.
I am starting to drive myself nuts when I secretly stalk DH's friend and his wife FB page to see if they found out the sex of their baby. She and I would of been 4 days apart.
I don't know why I should allow myself to get upset, I am not a fan of his wife but I do adore her husband who has never did anything to me.
IDK just need to vent
I am so thankful to have my Daughter in my life to help me heal but sometimes I sit back and watch her play and sleep and start thinking about if she would of had a little sister or brother.
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Posted 5/3/10 2:44 PM  |
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Bean08
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Re: one of those days today
don't beat yourself up...you're allowed to have these days!
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| Posted 5/3/10 2:49 PM |
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autumn
Mommy to 2 divas
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Lisa
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Re: one of those days today
I sent you a Long FM and then it didn't go though and it showed I was log out after a long time So what I wrote you had this in it.
I know, thank you
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| Posted 5/3/10 2:54 PM |
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bride07
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Re: one of those days today
I'm sorry!
It is very normal to have those moments. It's hard not to think about where you would of been if you were pregnant. I even know for each pregnancy I lossed, I would think about different events or Holidays...and me being pregnant for them.. I still think about what should of been when those events/holidays come around.
It just helps me to remind myself it will happen and I will have more Holidays and events to plan and think about for the next pregnancy.
You will have those exciting events again and can look forward to find out sex, sonos, etc.
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| Posted 5/3/10 3:28 PM |
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Bean08
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Re: one of those days today
Posted by autumn
I sent you a Long FM and then it didn't go though and it showed I was log out after a long time So what I wrote you had this in it.
I know, thank you
Awww I hate when that happens! It has happened to me so often, that I have now started copying everything I type before hitting send, just incase!!!
One day your daughter will have a brother or sister...I truly believe that!
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| Posted 5/3/10 3:48 PM |
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Jax430
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Re: one of those days today
I'm sorry you're having a rough day.
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| Posted 5/3/10 10:04 PM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
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Re: one of those days today
I'm sorry you were having a rough day...but don't be hard on yourself it's completely normal!
I am pregnant (finally) now and still think about the fact that had I not lost the baby I would have had a baby this past February! This July will be a year since my m/c!  It's still a crazy thought...
Even now I get jealous of some friends that are farther along than I am since I want to be out of this first trimester already.
I think it's natural. But hang in there.
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| Posted 5/4/10 9:54 AM |
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autumn
Mommy to 2 divas
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Re: one of those days today
Thank you ladies, today was a better day.
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| Posted 5/4/10 6:45 PM |
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