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PrincessVonTrockel
Trophy Wife in Training
Member since 11/09 2953 total posts
Name: Natalie
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Why do people assume you are the parent?
So my condo complex has a pool and we have a lifeguard on duty. She is a young pretty girl about 18 yrs old....so the other day I bring my little cousin (6yrs old) to the pool and the lifeguard asked
"Is she your sister?"
Instead of the other 3 people who have seen me with her in the past 6 years and have told her
"Tell your mommy..." and I love that she tells them "She's not my mommy she is my favorite cousin!"
Message edited 7/13/2010 1:59:09 PM.
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Posted 7/13/10 1:55 PM |
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tourist
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Re: Why do people assume you are the parent?
If I saw an adult with a child I would most likely think it was the parent, even thought I know it could be an aunt, cousin, sister, babysitter, etc.
At least they don't think you are her grandmother!
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Posted 7/13/10 3:26 PM |
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dfw343
LIF Infant
Member since 7/10 246 total posts
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Re: Why do people assume you are the parent?
People always assume I am my SD's Mom. They say we look alike (we kinda dont see it but whatever). She said to me other day "just go with it, it's easier".
People love to ASSume!
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Posted 7/13/10 5:16 PM |
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Christine
2nd verse same as the 1st
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Re: Why do people assume you are the parent?
Posted by tourist
If I saw an adult with a child I would most likely think it was the parent, even thought I know it could be an aunt, cousin, sister, babysitter, etc.
At least they don't think you are her grandmother!
Ditto! I compulsively let people know that I am the aunt when I am out with my niece or nephew.
and on the grandma comment.
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Posted 7/13/10 6:18 PM |
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PrincessVonTrockel
Trophy Wife in Training
Member since 11/09 2953 total posts
Name: Natalie
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Re: Why do people assume you are the parent?
Posted by Christine
I compulsively let people know that I am the aunt when I am out with my niece or nephew.
OMG I do this with my cousin too!!!!
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Posted 7/13/10 6:47 PM |
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DirtyBlonde
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Member since 11/07 7344 total posts
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Re: Why do people assume you are the parent?
I was at a party recently, holding Ophelia's son and someone thought he was mine!
I didn't mind though
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Posted 7/14/10 12:21 AM |
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DiamondGirl
You are my I love you
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Name: DiamondMama
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Re: Why do people assume you are the parent?
Eh, I guess bc you (or I, person in question) is of child bearing age and the only adult w/the child.
When I was teenager I was a nanny and I was in the park with my little guy a lot. Moms there were whispering that I was his mom and in a tisk tisk look at that teen mom kinda way. I thought it was quiet funny!
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Posted 7/14/10 9:02 AM |
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meli722
LIF Infant
Member since 11/09 373 total posts
Name: Mommmmyyyyyy!!
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Re: Why do people assume you are the parent?
I get the opposite...lol..i get asked if my daughter is my sister or my niece all the time..i guess its because i look 17 instead of 27
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Posted 7/14/10 11:06 PM |
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