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Forum Opinion Poll
All girls 47 78.33%
Jack & Jill 6 10.00%
Not having a shower 7 11.67%
 

What kind of shower are you having?

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Pray4Baby2010
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MB

What kind of shower are you having?

My dh seems to think that we are the only couple in the history of the world that is NOT having a jack and jill shower- so I thought I'd do a poll and see if that was the case tia Chat Icon

Posted 9/7/10 8:54 PM
 

springsandra
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Sandra

Re: What kind of shower are you having?

Definitely doing all girls.

Posted 9/7/10 9:23 PM
 

KNic19
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Kim

Re: What kind of shower are you having?

Jack & Jill would be cool because a large group of my friends are guys (I've been to pampered chef parties that have more guys than the football parties with the same group!), but I'm sure my mom will do all girls

Posted 9/7/10 9:45 PM
 

LadyBug1209
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Re: What kind of shower are you having?

All girls!! Chat Icon

However... every shower that I've ever been to for DH's side of the family has been a J&J. Since I know your DH is Hispanic as well, I think it might be a cultural thing, although I could absolutely be wrong. lol

Posted 9/7/10 10:01 PM
 

EndlessSummer719
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Re: What kind of shower are you having?

All girls

Posted 9/7/10 10:08 PM
 

EmiNoa628
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Emz

Re: What kind of shower are you having?

I dont know Chat Icon Chat Icon My sister saids all girls and SIL saids J&J.. I really dont know.. All I know is that my family and friends in ATL are having one for us.. I know the NYC babyshower is going to be much larger..

All I know is that they are already planning without me.. Chat Icon

Posted 9/7/10 10:44 PM
 

Ever-After
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C

Re: What kind of shower are you having?

I'm really not sure. Mine's still a couple months away. But I KIND of hope it's a jack & jill deal only because I'm living away from home and it's all DH's family out here. I would definitely want him there (since it's HIS family). When I come back to visit NY though, my family's planning on throwing me one there too - that I'm sure will be all girls.

Posted 9/7/10 10:54 PM
 

gforce
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Re: What kind of shower are you having?

I had a jack and Jill, and it was mostly guys too.

Posted 9/7/10 11:07 PM
 

BayB614
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Re: What kind of shower are you having?

Posted by Pray4Baby2010

My dh seems to think that we are the only couple in the history of the world that is NOT having a jack and jill shower- so I thought I'd do a poll and see if that was the case tia Chat Icon



aww it is nice that your dh wants to be included! my dh wants nothing to do with any type of shower bc he just pictures tons of crazed women. Chat Icon

i think both ways are nice, but my fam tends to do things a little more traditionally, so it will be all girls.

Posted 9/7/10 11:39 PM
 

walkintomymind
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Sarah

Re: What kind of shower are you having?

All girls!

DH's family typically has showers at restaurants (I dont know about mine yet) and generally the men hang out at the bar (the family men, DH, Dad, FIL, BIL). But if it doesn't work out that way DH wouldn't want to come except for a drop off and hello and a pick up of the goods!!!

Posted 9/8/10 6:25 AM
 

MrsYank
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Mrs. Yank

Re: What kind of shower are you having?

All girls but someone had told us about a "Beer and Diapers" thing where the guys get together and bring beer and a package of diapers and hang out at the house while the girls are at the shower. Chat Icon

Posted 9/8/10 6:48 AM
 

Lisa982006
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Lisa

Re: What kind of shower are you having?

All girls. If for some reason we didnt have enough women, then we were going to do a J&J.

Posted 9/8/10 7:26 AM
 

Pray4Baby2010
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MB

Re: What kind of shower are you having?

Posted by Maria31

All girls!! Chat Icon

However... every shower that I've ever been to for DH's side of the family has been a J&J. Since I know your DH is Hispanic as well, I think it might be a cultural thing, although I could absolutely be wrong. lol



yea that definitely has a lot to do with it!

Posted 9/8/10 8:01 AM
 

Pray4Baby2010
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MB

Re: What kind of shower are you having?

Posted by BayB614

Posted by Pray4Baby2010

My dh seems to think that we are the only couple in the history of the world that is NOT having a jack and jill shower- so I thought I'd do a poll and see if that was the case tia Chat Icon



aww it is nice that your dh wants to be included! my dh wants nothing to do with any type of shower bc he just pictures tons of crazed women. Chat Icon

i think both ways are nice, but my fam tends to do things a little more traditionally, so it will be all girls.



haha no- the only reason that he wants it is so that we dont have to go out and buy as much stuff Chat Icon he's ridiculous!

Posted 9/8/10 8:02 AM
 

lolipep
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Lori

Re: What kind of shower are you having?

It's all girls but DH wants to stay

Posted 9/8/10 8:20 AM
 

miamimerger
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Member since 4/10

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Laura

Re: What kind of shower are you having?

all girls plus DH will probably be there. we are probably having it at my FIL's house and he has a game room in his basement. DH will probably invite some of the guys to go play pool with him while people gawk over my belly Chat Icon

Posted 9/8/10 8:26 AM
 

pteradactylmama
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Member since 6/10

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Heather

Re: What kind of shower are you having?

I'm not sure. . I think the plan is to have an all girls one but I don't know. . I think DH should have his own shower with his own friends. . he has a lot of female friends too so maybe they will throw him one. .

and if I have an all girls shower does that mean I do invite or don't invite my gay male friends? Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/8/10 8:36 AM
 

poasBFP
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EDD April 25th 2011

Re: What kind of shower are you having?

With #1 it was all girls. I imagine IF I have a sprinkle this time since its twins I imagine it iwll be all girls again.

Posted 9/8/10 8:44 AM
 

MeeshMosh
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Re: What kind of shower are you having?

we are doing all girls... DH & FIL will come towards the very end to have something to eat & help load the cars with the gifts, but other than that, i think the boys would be SO bored at a baby shower lol

Posted 9/8/10 9:54 AM
 

LovelyMrsKelly
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Carmen

Re: What kind of shower are you having?

Posted by Maria31

All girls!! Chat Icon

However... every shower that I've ever been to for DH's side of the family has been a J&J. Since I know your DH is Hispanic as well, I think it might be a cultural thing, although I could absolutely be wrong. lol



I would agree.. I'm Hispanic and we always have J&J showers... which totally threw my Irish DH off ever since I started taking him to family functions back when we were dating, since he was only knew of people having all girl babyshowers...

Now he loves J&J babyshowers!

Posted 9/8/10 10:40 AM
 

babybird2010
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Member since 3/10

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Jeanette

Re: What kind of shower are you having?

I wouldnt mind a J & J shower but mine will be all girls since my DH is not into going to any type of showers Chat Icon

Posted 9/8/10 11:01 AM
 

babylove628
mommy of two!

Member since 11/09

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Maggie

Re: What kind of shower are you having?

Probably an all girls one. Still not sure if I want one, my mom said if Id rather not have one she'll just spend all the money on the baby instead of the shower, so either way I'll have what I need Chat Icon

Posted 9/8/10 11:51 AM
 

MayBbaby21
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Re: What kind of shower are you having?

All girls! DH would want nothing to do with a J&J shower Chat Icon

Posted 9/8/10 12:21 PM
 

TheDivineMrsM
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Member since 8/08

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Mama mama mama....

Re: What kind of shower are you having?

An invisible one, lol. I wated one, my my mom and MIL are insistent that "Jews don't have showers." Sigh.

Posted 9/8/10 2:23 PM
 

Miss2mrs
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Re: What kind of shower are you having?

I would do a J&J at a house because then there is room for the guys to hang out and if its nice out, they can hang outside.

If its at a restaurant, then I would do an all girl shower only.

I think mine will be an all girl shower.

Posted 9/8/10 10:25 PM
 
 

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