Anxious and "O" confused-newbie!!

After years of not being ready.. DH and I took the plunge and shortly after had a BFP! Unfortunately we had a m/c 6 weeks in. Nothing convinced me more that the waiting was over and a baby was what I wanted. So.. we've been BDing about 4 months... I've started charting and trying to figure out O.
Day 13 and 14 I spotted and NEVER have mid cycle. I've learned it could be O spotting... ok. Then day 17 pain in the left side.. which is also when CM is obvious. Is it possible to O twice? What is going on???? Does anyone have any reliable links that can clear this up for me?

My due date is 9/16 and it seems so far away!!

Re: Anxious and "O" confused-newbie!!

I dont think you O'd on CD 13-14. Sounds like you did on CD17. The spotting could be from your body getting ready to O but I dont think it is possible to O twice. (Im pretty sure I had asked my RE this same question 1 cycle)

Im not a doctor though. If the spotting is unusual, maybe you should see your OB. Good luck!!

Re: Anxious and "O" confused-newbie!!

That sounds about right... I usually O at day 17-18. Day 13 was out of the ordinary. If it happens again, I'll speak to my OB. thanks!

Re: Anxious and "O" confused-newbie!!

What do your charts look like? to be honest I loved the clear blue easy fertility monitor! It was totally worth the $$$ for me! I tried for 7 months after my m/c and got pg on my 2nd month of using my monitor. Turned out I was o'ing later than I thought!

Re: Anxious and "O" confused-newbie!!

I havent used that yet... Thank you for the recommendation though... I'd love to say I want to let nature take it's course but there's something empowering about learning how your body works... 7 days left... if I get BFN, Im going to try your suggestion!