will you be in hiding on LIF if you get your BFP??

I Haven't decided!!!!!
i think as long as i tell my mom and best friend first, then i wont mind being out of the closet...

edited to rephrase the question

Message edited 10/11/2010 3:03:54 PM.

Re: will you be in hiding if you get y our BFP??

IRL, yes. Here? probably not

Re: will you be in hiding if you get y our BFP??

it was my plan to wait a while to tell most of my family... but my mom and my sister blabbed...

ETA: no, i didnt use a fake user name...

Message edited 10/11/2010 3:19:56 PM.

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Message edited 11/6/2010 4:18:49 PM.

Re: will you be in hiding on LIF if you get your BFP??

Well since I am in hiding now I will be on hiding when I get BFP as well. Once everyone knows at like 12 weeks I will come out of hiding.

Re: will you be in hiding on LIF if you get your BFP??

well i don't think that anyone IRL knows me on here (or stalks me ) so i think i am safe enough...

IRL i will keep it under wraps for awhile - maybe just tell my Mom

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I'm going to tell my Mom only. I know that my BF expects to know (she knows we are trying) but, Iam kind of superstitcious so I dont want to tell her. Besides that she has a big mouth and cant be trusted

Re: will you be in hiding on LIF if you get your BFP??

I'm in hiding now b/c there are a few ppl on this site I know that I chose to stay away from in my daily life. When we do get BFP I will let all you wonderful ladies know (of course) we are waiting until we are 12 wks b/f we tell family & friends. I will most likely become more open w/my identity (if anyone really cares) at that time. I guess I'll just hope those few ppl never notice me on any of the boards.

Re: will you be in hiding on LIF if you get your BFP??

yes i will be. i know that there are many people here that i dont know irl but there are some from liw that i have met and although we arent close i would still feel funny having them know before other important people in my life. DH also is very into the whole waiting 12 weeks before saying anything

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On here? No. I am anonymous here (with the exception of a few LIW people).

IRL, I probably will tell those close to me right away.

Re: will you be in hiding on LIF if you get your BFP??

Not on here. You all have been so amazing, I'm excited to share with all of you!

Re: will you be in hiding on LIF if you get your BFP??

i dont think i will on here but with friends and fam i wont tell for a while

Re: will you be in hiding on LIF if you get your BFP??

i am already in hiding and will stay that way until 12 weeks...then i will reveal who i am

Re: will you be in hiding on LIF if you get your BFP??

hell no! I'll be too excited!

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We don't plan on telling people IRL until after 12 weeks. So, yeah I will prob go in to hiding once I get my BFP. Not that many know me on this site but just to be safe

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No..I know a few ppl here IRL...so here I will come out..but in real life esp after my MC I'm going to wait a while even with family bc I told family right away this time around and hated that everyone knew when I mc...

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Posted by popabubble

hell no! I'll be too excited!

Re: will you be in hiding on LIF if you get your BFP??

I am going to try my hardest to hold out IRL until 12 weeks (with the exception of my BFF who is trying at the same time as me) but we shall see since I am no good at keeping my own secrets

On here...I haven't decided but just in case I do decide to stay quiet, I refuse to join the monthly TWW threads.

Im just so nervous to tell anyone too early and miscarry. I dont handle sympathy well and would never want to grieve that in public.

Message edited 10/12/2010 11:51:56 AM.

Re: will you be in hiding on LIF if you get your BFP??

I wouldn't do a fake name on LIF though I do find it fun when people reveal themselves!

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I probably won't do a fake name here although I may wait until after the first doctor's appointment. We'll see though, I may not be able to contain myself

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I really don't want to but it makes me nervous how many coincidental acquaintances there are on these boards. I know I don't have any stalkers/lurkers but I can just imagine one of DH's co-workers or someone from my job recognizing me or DH. It happened during wedding planning so it could happen here too though I don't post as much here as I did on LIW

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Yes......

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Re: will you be in hiding on LIF if you get your BFP??

I am in hiding right now! . I will also try to wait as long as I can (12 weeks) to tell everyone. My family I may tell sooner and I will def tell my sis and like a few friends asap!