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LIF Zygote
Member since 10/10 35 total posts
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Me
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No seriously why are they such babies?
Got a +OPK today & was looking forward to  tonight. I made dinner; let him relax & then he goes in early to bed saying he's tired. I go in a bit after and lean over to start things. He then tells me how he has the chills & doesn't feel good & how he never got over what he had earlier this week & being outside most of the day didn't help it. No, seriously? All you have to do is a quickie...nothing else...& you can't do that? After everything WE have to do & then 1 of our prime baby making days you're going to cop out?
I just can't even imagine if women were such babies when they were sick or how guys would handle being "mom" when they themselves were sick.
Venting here; hoping for something in the am.
Although i walked out of the BR crying/mad w/ him & he's mad at me b/c I have no consideration (b/c he's sick  )
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Posted 12/4/10 10:11 PM  |
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fight the future
Master of my domain.
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Rebecca
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Re: No seriously why are they such babies?
hope he shows up for 'work' in the morning.
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| Posted 12/4/10 10:39 PM |
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SummerMom
Now a mom of 2!
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Re: No seriously why are they such babies?
Been there. 
When it happens, I find that it's best to be sweet and encouraging about it. I used to cry, but that didn't help anything. Being all sweet and non-judgmental, he can "get right back on that horse," as it were. 
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| Posted 12/4/10 11:05 PM |
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bettybcafe
Big brother in the making
Member since 7/07 8611 total posts
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Re: No seriously why are they such babies?
Oh man, tell me about it! Men are absolute babies! DH is the same way. I mean, cmon, a quickie...thats all you are asking for.
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| Posted 12/4/10 11:26 PM |
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fight the future
Master of my domain.
Member since 3/10 2067 total posts
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Rebecca
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Re: No seriously why are they such babies?
if it makes you feel any better...
even on DH's best day... there's no such thing as a quickie.  i know when the time comes there's going to have to be no mention of doing it purely to conceive because we'll never 'get 'er done'
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| Posted 12/5/10 2:28 AM |
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LoLaBlue
PARTY OF 5
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Re: No seriously why are they such babies?
I've been there..its hard but you kind of have to let it go..I used to cry & get mad & in the end it didnt help the situation at all.
Hopefully tonight you can
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| Posted 12/5/10 10:44 AM |
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Leb
LIF Adult
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Re: No seriously why are they such babies?
This is my husband exactly.
Sometimes I think you are lucky to even get to have sex with me!
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| Posted 12/5/10 1:21 PM |
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