What was that???

So tonight DH and I started to BD. It's the first time since I lost the pregnancy. I was only 4 weeks. We were planning to withdraw because I have to wait to try again because dr wants to do some tests. I know that I'm fertile right now and out of nowhere I started to cry while BDing. I totally freaked out DH. So many thoughts started running through my head. It really freaked me out too. Is this normal when trying to BD the first time after mc??

Re: What was that???

It sounds totally normal to me. I haven't BD'd yet since I am currently still miscarrying, but I've already thought about it - and I'm sure I'll react the same way.

I think it's one of those things though, you just have to do it, get over your fear, and it will be easier after that.

Re: What was that???

I def cried after the firsst time after the m/c it was just so hard for me. The whole time my head was racing and when we were done I just burst into tears
It does get easier with time

Re: What was that???

This happened to me

It was our first time since I was cleared to after I had a D&E. All I could think about was everything I had been through and how the last time anything was going on "down there" it was to remove my son I just couldn't.......

However... I will tell you I think it is TOTALLY normal, and you DO get over it!